"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have a couple questions to ask to you guys about conversation. Which do you guys believe is more important in a conversation quality or quantity? What I mean is quality=3 or 4 interesting topics or quantity= running your mouth all day and night about whatever comes into mind. I have found that the more I talk about interesting topics people are receptive and want to talk more, but I find it boring talking about the same stuff all the time. The thing is though that I have more fun when I m just babbling all the time about whatever I feel like saying or doing, but people are either too serious or just not interested when I act this way. What's your opinion on it quality or quantity?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Conversate and conversating are not words. Converse and conversing are the right words. Sorry but the thread topic and then obvious word gaffe made me lol =P.
 
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