Conused

[seek&destroy]

I had a thing for this girl at my school and after i asked her out (and got rejected) i kind of pulled away from her, but for some strange reason she thought i still wanted her and was following her around and in her words, "freaking her out". She told me that she can't conisder me as a friend anymore and that she never did in the first place. After that I left her alone (again) for 2-3 months, and now she is suddenly being nice to me. She is saying that she feels bad about what she has told me and is trying to be nicer to me. I don't think I should care about this though, and i told her that she doesnt have to do anything because i don't care about the past anymore. am i doing something wrong here? if so, what should i do?

-seek&destroy-

 

[Damian]

There's a big problem with being rejected. I think you should be genuine and just confront her up front with this.

"Look, if you want to be friends with me and just hang out as buddies, that's great. If this is just pity caring, then No thank you. I'll go find someone who's more genuine."

-Damian

 

[08aisaac]

Damnit Janet.
Man, I feel the same way as you. Except the same thing happened to me with about half the freshman chicks that go to my highschool.
I was thinking, I'll be friendly to them, but they think I'm weird. Just gives me incentive to go for older chicks.
The problem with being nice to girls, is they think you like them, then you have to set things straight, by being mean.

But now I just ignore them all, and I hang out with older girls, who all think I'm pretty cool. The younger girls see this, and think, maybe he's not that bad, but I totally am like, **** you, you missed out on me, you ****ing *****.

Jealousy would work in your favor right now. If she sees you with other chicks, she'll see what she missed out on.
Just work with this, and see the best way to cause her to see her mistake.

See, you told her that you didn't care, but girls don't listen to what you say, they listen to what you do. So just be different to her. Good luck.

 

[seek&destroy]

i got drunk last night and she happened to be at the party i went to. bummer (not really). i asked her if we can talk and we went somewhere quiet. the first thing she did was appologize to me for being so rude to me and accepted that she messed up, not me. we are kind of back to being friends now, but i am still interested in her...she doesn't know this though. what should i do?