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Controversial Topic - how do you feel about interracial dating?

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Robert28 said:
what most people fail to comprehend is that NOT every white guy is a redneck, preppy, racist, cracka. I'm a well educated white man and smile everytime someone refers to me as a racist because I don't date black women, or white women that date black guys.

Oh and trust me, I KNOW not every white guy is a redneck, preppy, or whatever. Because my parents were military, I was born and raised in mostly middle class/white neighborhoods. To be honest, I've had more sex with white women than black. So a white girl choosing to date or fvck me knows she's not fvcking a thug or motherf**** on welfare and sags his pants or whatever. Some white women just DONT see race if the man is educated and carries himself well.
 

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Thatfeel21 said:
But you'll date a white woman who has dated an asian man before? Or spanish perhaps?

nope and nope. read my first post, it covers it. there are PLENTY of caucasian women that date only caucasian males only. I never once claimed interracial dating wasn't accepted, it's just not as popular as you may think.
 

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Thatfeel21 said:
Oh and trust me, I KNOW not every white guy is a redneck, preppy, or whatever. Because my parents were military, I was born and raised in mostly middle class/white neighborhoods. To be honest, I've had more sex with white women than black. So a white girl choosing to date or fvck me knows she's not fvcking a thug or motherf**** on welfare and sags his pants or whatever. Some white women just DONT see race if the man is educated and carries himself well.
lol my family is military also. Two West Point grads in fact. I'm not claiming that women can't choose who to date, bang, whatever. All I'm saying is if that is a choice they make then I will not be dating them. I'm sure they will be able to go on living their lives just fine too, just like I will.
 

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Robert28 said:
nope and nope. read my first post, it covers it. there are PLENTY of caucasian women that date only caucasian males only. I never once claimed interracial dating wasn't accepted, it's just not as popular as you may think.
But how would you know that the woman youre pursuing or already ****ing has NEVER fvcked a guy outside of her race? Just curious to know how you go about retrieving this information.
 

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But how would you know that the woman youre pursuing or already ****ing has NEVER fvcked a guy outside of her race? Just curious to know how you go about retrieving this information.
most of the women I meet are in social circles and you just know from who they hangout with and stuff. sometimes the topic gets brought up by them. like I said I've only been out with one girl that had dated someone outside of their race before because she said her kid was mixed, yet she didn't bother to tell me until the second date. if she hides that kind of info then who knows what else shes hiding?
 

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Robert28 said:
and you obviously think society follows everything that has to do with NY or NJ. i wouldn't call me prejudice when you referred to myself, as well as ALL white men as rednecks and douchebags. i never said white girls that dated black guys or spanish guys was wrong, i just said that i wouldn't have anything to do with them. maybe by the time we become the minority i can finally get to be on welfare, get food stamps, have medicaid, drive a $300 car with $5000 rims and live in a $1000 house, wear my pants around my ass, etc. only 38 more years to go:D


I hope I never meet you in person...
 

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I honestly could care less who other people date. I don't have a racial preference to be honest. Plus my toddler nephew is black and white and I am excited to see what kind of man he will grow up to be.
 

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I hope I never meet you in person...
Otherwise what would you do to the user robert28 if you do?
You will perform a jackhammer following a frog splash from the ring corner on him taking advantage of your policeman cousin that will not arrest you and your judge uncle that will declare you not guilty at the trial?

What he said is not exactly "nice" but dont exagerate mate.
 

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Gray The Prince said:
I hope I never meet you in person...

you probably won't but if you do please introduce yourself. thanks for making an unfounded claim about me in your signature though. haters gonna hate i guess:crackup: I don't care who people date either, it's not like i'm protesting interracial dating. I just said I won't date women that have been in interracial relationships, have mixed kids, and have sex with people outside of their race. thats just as much MY choice as it is their choice to choose who they date. doesn't make me a racist though. it just makes you mad that my opinion is different then yours thats all.
 

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Otherwise what would you do to the user robert28 if you do?
You will perform a jackhammer following a frog splash from the ring corner on him taking advantage of your policeman cousin that will not arrest you and your judge uncle that will declare you not guilty at the trial?

What he said is not exactly "nice" but dont exagerate mate.

better watch my back huh?:yawn:
 

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Robert28 said:
what most people fail to comprehend is that NOT every white guy is a redneck, preppy, racist, cracka. I'm a well educated white man and smile everytime someone refers to me as a racist because I don't date black women, or white women that date black guys.
Touche.
 
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Robert28, you stick to your guns, people who shout racist the loudest are often the biggest racists of them all. You have your opinions, I might disagree with your opinions, but I respect your right to hold those opinions.

This thread is just pointless and it just shows that no matter what age we're in, racism will always exist, and it cuts both ways as shown in this thread.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Otherwise what would you do to the user robert28 if you do?
You will perform a jackhammer following a frog splash from the ring corner on him taking advantage of your policeman cousin that will not arrest you and your judge uncle that will declare you not guilty at the trial?

What he said is not exactly "nice" but dont exagerate mate.

Why did you reveal to him my secret plans of attack?! And I was going to do a 5-star frog splash, not a regular one. :(
 

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This white boy don't really care. I think too many people focus on race / skin color, but if you think about it, its all pink on the inside. Just try not to think about all the other wang the girl may have had in her.

Would I date / screw a chick outside my "race"? Hells yes. In fact I think honey colored skin or mocha is really exotic. If she has what you like, who cares what color her skin is? Who cares what color the last penis she had inside her was? Just try to not think about it. Heck just knowing some guy was inside her kind of irks me, never mind his race or color, but, what are you going to do? Not think about it.

Believe it or not, not everyone that is a different color / race then you are, are bad.

perseverance said:
I'm a white man and I couldn't care less about interracial dating. I'll date a woman of any race, providing she is a decent human being, compliments me well and is someone I want to be with.

Whoever someone else dates or doesn't date is not my concern.
I'm black, and I'd date any women in the world if she met my standards.

A woman is a woman, I don't care what race she is. And I feel bad for those that won't date a woman because of her race -- you know what, No I don't. More women out there for me. :crackup:


I just don't understand why would anyone close doors before they even see them? This just does not make sense at all.
 

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Robert28 said:
you probably won't but if you do please introduce yourself. thanks for making an unfounded claim about me in your signature though. haters gonna hate i guess:crackup: I don't care who people date either, it's not like i'm protesting interracial dating. I just said I won't date women that have been in interracial relationships, have mixed kids, and have sex with people outside of their race. thats just as much MY choice as it is their choice to choose who they date. doesn't make me a racist though. it just makes you mad that my opinion is different then yours thats all.
What I highlighted in bold makes you pretty racist. Apparently you think somebody who has been with another race is contaminated, hence why you don't want anything to do with them.

Not really mad, just disappointed garbage like you still breathes and walks the face of this Earth. But then again, who am I to judge you...
 

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Maybe depends on where you have grown up or what your used to. Im a latin guy but ive dated and messed around with more white females than any other race. I see mixed race couples all the time, then again ive grown up all my life in NYC so you see all kinda of different mixes.

For someone from NYC you sure are ignorant. Latin people are white. Romanian? Italian? Spanish? Brazilian? Argentine? Mostly white people I have seen in those places. NYC is mostly dark little people these days. I have no idea where they are from. Maybe Peru? I dare you to go to Argentina or Uruguay and say that they are not white. I dare you. Of course that would require money which you don't have. Americans are pretty poor these days.

http://www.theodora.com/wfb/photos/...io_santa_fe_province_argentina_photo_wiki.jpg
Typical street scene from Argentina. The dark little women in the background is probably a Peruvian or Bolivian maid. Yes, Argentina is many more times whiter than America or Canada. Americans don't travel. They just drop bombs. Sad.
 

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For someone from NYC you sure are ignorant. Latin people are white. Romanian? Italian? Spanish? Brazilian? Argentine? Mostly white people I have seen in those places. NYC is mostly dark little people these days. I have no idea where they are from. Maybe Peru? I dare you to go to Argentina or Uruguay and say that they are not white. I dare you. Of course that would require money which you don't have. Americans are pretty poor these days.

http://www.theodora.com/wfb/photos/...io_santa_fe_province_argentina_photo_wiki.jpg
Typical street scene from Argentina. The dark little women in the background is probably a Peruvian or Bolivian maid. Yes, Argentina is many more times whiter than America or Canada. Americans don't travel. They just drop bombs. Sad.

My favorite SoSuave troll, come to brighten my day eh?
 

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Human males feel this way:

They dont mind if other races of men take their low quality or ugly women but they hate when other races of men get their "best" females.. cause females are a commodity or resource like most other thing that we want and need
 

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Personally, I don't have a problem with interracial dating. I'm a Black male, and I'm attracted to all races of women. I try my best to judge people by the content of their character, not simply based on their skin color or culture.

Many guys who've replied here seem surprised that a lot of people disagree with interracial dating, but I'm not surprised in the least. While you will probably never hear this type of candor in everyday conversation, many people secretly revile interracial relationships. While race relations have certainly improved, they're not as "improved" as many people believe. Post-racial society, huh? Read some of the earlier posts in this thread....

It doesn't bother me if someone disagrees with the idea of interracial dating; everyone has their preferences, and are entitled to them. However, you can be respectful in the way you express your opinion.
 

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Gray The Prince said:
What I highlighted in bold makes you pretty racist. Apparently you think somebody who has been with another race is contaminated, hence why you don't want anything to do with them.

Not really mad, just disappointed garbage like you still breathes and walks the face of this Earth. But then again, who am I to judge you...

there you go putting words in my mouth and twisting around the words i said. contaminated huh? when did i EVER hint of that? did i say i was scared of catching some sort of disease? no i didn't. but thats what you wanted me to say, so you took my words to mean that. does it make the white women racists that despise me for being white because they choose to date black guys, latinos, etc? no ofcourse not because we all know no one could ever be racist against white people! oh heaven forbid! this isnt even about race, you just want to make it about race. it's about choices i make that you dont agree with and are offended because i refuse to get down with anything but white girls. tell me again, how does that affect your life?

so yeah, go ahead and call me garbage for speaking my voice and giving my opinion in a country where free speech is a right given to ALL of us, not just ones who agree with you. plenty of men and women have fought and died for this country for you or any other s.o.b. to tell me what i can and cant say, what i can and cant think. sounds like you're the one with the problem, not me.
 

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