Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Controlling ego

zinc4

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Ronaldo7 said:
Both videos get to the point I'm trying to make. You don't seem to be an individual that can grasp such concepts. You are just another average bum, who hides behind alcohol to avoid confronting your disorders/problems. You just reak negative energy all throughout. What a sorry existence you must endure....

Someone really needs to slap you...you brag about using people as tools.....and constantly whine about your friends not wanting you to join them because you ruin the vibe.....you cannot possibly generate genuine positive energy by using others and only caring about yourself. You are not even worthy of speaking about such matters.

And you manage to make yourself look even dumber every time you post....quite a feat really. Anyone with a brain can figure you out.

Stop projecting YOUR issues onto me. I have an OCD problem, but you have a major personality disorder problem in general.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zinc4 said:
Someone really needs to slap you...you brag about using people as tools.....and constantly whine about your friends not wanting you to join them because you ruin the vibe.....you cannot possibly generate genuine positive energy by using others and only caring about yourself. You are not even worthy of speaking about such matters.

And you manage to make yourself look even dumber every time you post....quite a feat really. Anyone with a brain can figure you out.

Stop projecting YOUR issues onto me. I have an OCD problem, but you have a major personality disorder problem in general.
That thread was from months ago. I have since learned to accept that people either love me or hate me. There is nothing i can do about it.

Once again, i am condemned for trying to give advice. You are the one with the OCD, not me. Go find professional help before you hurt yourself in one of your "hallucination" episodes.
 
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