Control your sexual urges and you will control her's

[DJDamage]

It occurs to me that often it is hard to get to women to have sex as much as we want.

Men initiate sex most of the time because we want it most of the time.

The problem is that women do not. Sometimes when we want sex, they won't give us because they "don't feel it or don't want to this moment". This can be very frustrating.

However when the situation is reversed and the woman comes on to her man by placing her hand on his croutch to indicate she wants sex, the man will comply! liks a salviating puppy He will jump at the opportunity for sex because he doesn't have to work for it and its handed to him on a plate. This is AFC behaviour. She controls you. You have no say at the matter at all.

Men are not able to control women sexual urges but women can certainly control ours. I say lets take that power back.

Its best in this situation to deny her sex from time to time when she feels like it and try's to come on to you . Reject her and tell her you are not in the mood and this will shock her. This way you are promoting scarcity of resources because she wants to have sex as well! this method turns the tables because when you come on to her it is less likely she will reject your advances, she won't know when she will get it again the next time. She will comply!

The uncertainty of not getting sex whenever she wants to will esnure that you will get more sex in the future.

DjDamage

 

[Boner da Stoner]

when she places herself on the line like that is the time you decide to take the leash and lead her on like a *****(female dog).

lol, in a bar this is the point where the UG starts following you around, than you bring her to da bouncer and get her kicked out, she writes you a love letter with all the nasty things she wants to do to you and gives it to a mutual friend... ba da bing, ba da boom, **** buddy for life.

 

[SamePendo]

I see it like this.

Once you know what you're doing. You take action when you know she's ready for it (makeout, kissing, general touching). But not when she's not. And when she does the same advances, you sometimes comply, and sometimes not. Concurr?

Because, yeah, that's chumpish, to jump at all of her advances.

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by SamePendo
I see it like this.

Once you know what you're doing. You take action when you know she's ready for it (makeout, kissing, general touching). But not when she's not. And when she does the same advances, you sometimes comply, and sometimes not. Concurr?

More or less. Even if you know what you are doing to turn her on, it doesn't mean she will allow you to sleep with her.

That is kind of the problem in LTR that a woman will not always accept your advances because she doesn't feel like having sex at the moment.

Most guys who I know that are in LTR have this sort of problem. The girlfriend/wife has taken control of sex. If she doesn't feel like it she will rebuff the offer and the only way a guy knows that he is going to get some for sure is if she comes on to him (which is not often). Men are always ready to have sex while women take a while to either get in a mood or get aroused.

Therefore we need some control in order to dictate that if we want sex that at least 90% we shouldn't be rejected and since there is no gurentees that we would comply when they want sex, they will have to take that offer.

If she reject you from time to time, then you should do the same (which most men don't do because they are just happy to have sex no matter what). This will increase the chances of you having it your way and also ensures that you will not be blackmailed (some wive's withold sex from their husbands in order for him to do something).

DjDamage

 

[MightyMate]

Very true. My girl is doing that to me lately, and i just started no giving her sex back. I will have to cheat on her tho, because i need sex.. Well. its all her fault

 

[Boner da Stoner]

mightymate, whats your name for

I bet she's already cheating on you

From what I've learned of LTR's, I have never been in one, maybe my pristine mind has not been poisoned...

I have a 100% F close rate when I can control a girls emotions in a certain direction, keep building with what turns her on as you know her. She has certain things that she loves and she mentions certain words, and she likes certain actions... illicit her values and prey on her emotions... until than she's the one who wears the panties and her choice if her legs unlock.

 

[MightyMate]

Nah she aint have time to cheat we have to add i need like 6 times a day.. She can give me one, an a *******. Its still not much for me

 

[sstype]

the solution is simple. Project high value by having other women chase you.

1. She will see this and work harder to keep you in the relationship.

2. You can drop her azz if she starts being a bytch and go bang the other chycks. This will show her that you have plenty of fycking options and dont need her.