"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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I have read inoformation on this website, mainly the quick tips. There is lots of what seems to be good advice but it contrdicts itself. Some posts say you should buy girls occasinal cheap presents, others say never to. Some say compliment girls a lot, and others say not to, i have gained valubale advice but i am stuck on what to do on these issues and many other contridicting issues. What should i do
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Figure it out by experimentation. In the long run, the little things don't matter.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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1 of my main problems is a speak to a lot of girls on MSN that i know, but do not know well. I do not want to seem desprate but i think thta every time i talk to them i seem to clingy as i ussualy say hi 1st and make a lot of effort to keep the conversation going, but if i dont do this they do not talk much.

How can i turn this around given the situation and what should i do in future?
 

Porky

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practice talking with people you don't know that well...

get the fvck off of MSN.
 

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watch the beggining of Patch Adams. Ends crap but the begining is the DJ part.

Here's my trick... call random people. Hold convo's with them. Same with people on the street. Always look for somebody new. think of them as future contacts.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jerky Boi

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As far as the quick tips go, they're all from different people but no matter how many techniques people discover or methods people come up with, there will never be a definite answer to everything. Just go off of that and experiment. Find your own special way to approach. Whatever you're comfortable with. Those are just accounts of what has worked well for them. That's all. Good luck
 

Porky

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I met Patch Adams.
 

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most of that stuff is just about not putting women up on a pedastal. Yeah dude buy her something once in a while but be a man. Don't be needy.

Good Luck
 

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I'd only ever buy a girl a gift if you were in a serious relationship with her. You don't want to shower her with them otherwise she'll probably start using you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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