"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Contradictory Actions!?

narcissist

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I don't understand this one plate I have, maybe you guys can shed some bright light on the situation seeing as I am still vastly inexperienced in the art of Don Juanism.

Have you guys ever had a b!tch you were gaming that you've made out with on multiple occasions, she's REALLY interested, even tells you that she likes you a lot, and then when your not in person NEVER EVER initiates contact? Or even messages you for that matter? And then next time you see them they are ALL over you and showing super high interest, then leave and same sh!t no contact/no msg back..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Skyline

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This doesn't even matter when shes already showing high interest in person. She could be busy, wrong number, or she just doesn't like messaging. Its what she does in real life is what counts really. This is obviously giving you mixed signals so I'm gonna advise you not to say or do anything out of insecurity just because she "doesn't message me." The point is is that she's already showing high interest, nothing else really matters.

Sounds a bit silly once you really think about it.
 

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yeah it is a bit silly haha

i have not and will not do anything stupid, i have a pretty decent control over myself and my insecurities so they dont usually get the best of me.

but yeah i was just curious as i found it quite strange. thanks for the input mate
 
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