"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Contradictions in DJing?

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Guoy Darko said:
Well I haven't read the whole DJ bible, but most of it I have. But you can't explain the contradictions so I guess you haven't either? But I will finish it.

I started watching some DVD's of David DeAngelo but they took hours. So went back to the articles of sosuave. I have no clue what Swinggcat is. I didn't like The mystery method. (Go out 4 times a week. WTF?!?!?) Pretty unrealistic. Style???

Most of the time I'm reading very selective. Only read articles about subjects I have trouble with. That's why I didn't read the who DJBible. I'm currently reading weapons of mass seduction. Love that one! :cool:
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I listen to his audio cd series on an old iPod whenever I drive. It's a hell of a lot easier than watching a video for 4 hours (more like 12). And yeah, I never was big on Mystery Method. He had some nifty ideas but his training (go out 4 times a week) crap made DJ'ing a job. I wasn't having fun anymore so I stopped the first week, and went on when I felt like it.

Like King said, there is so much crap out there it's almost stupid. You'll find your own style eventually.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In response to the original post, I would like to say that being a DJ has very little to do with procedure, and you should know this. Being a DJ is almost all about attitude and how you approach things. Sometimes this means that you have go to against the wind on common scenarios, sometimes it means you must adhere to them like cement holds bricks together, but you must have the right attitude in both cases to be able to decide.

Nick
 
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