"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Continue NC or be forward with her if she's having Buyer's Remorse?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Collegedude

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What are some ways here I can go about responding to her "lmao are you pissed?" Question. Is no reply the best in this situation or should I answer back with a question or something sarcastic
 

Lostsoul85

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I wouldn't even reply to that text she is testing you

She enjoys the attention you give her and probably sees you as a friend

Actions speak louder than words

you went ghost for 3 weeks so now her ego is taking a hit

Keep doing what you are doing..spin other plates
 

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Collegedude said:
What are some ways here I can go about responding to her "lmao are you pissed?" Question. Is no reply the best in this situation or should I answer back with a question or something sarcastic
she texts you at 2:44 am? lol, why did you even text that aw back? 3 weeks then she comes back with this? "sweetest and interesting" doesn't turn her on, no reason why she can't go on a date, just lame excuses, she won't say that to some guy that turns her on.


don't be sarcastic, she isn't going to care, she is trying to bait you with these texts, beat her at her own game, make her feel like you don't even care which you shouldn't.

since you already replied, just say " lol, pissed at what? you didn't push me away, we didn't click enough to keep dating, i wasn't feeling it, i hope you understand."

then don't text her back no more

funny how all these other guys want to keep giving girls like this another chance, right after the first date when they see nothing is happening, when the first date is a bust, you get nothing, no need to want to try to get more, girls decide during the first date if they want to hook up, this girl wasn't feeling it, don't waste your time when its obvious she doesn't like you.



Harry Wilmington said:
You should have saved the kiss for the SECOND date. Yes, it's possible to get away with a first date kiss, but I have found most women are more open to a second date kiss, especially if you didn't try to jump their bones on the first date. Plus, by the second date they've had time to reminisce about how great they thought you were after the first date, and are in more of a mood to kiss you than upon first going out with you.
lame awful advice, when there's no interest coming from the girl, there is not going to be a second date, did you see her text to him? those were her thoughts all during the first date, no second date ever, you think there's going to be a second and a kiss? :crackup:

it's more like they reminisce about how they have no attracton, how no second date is ever going to happen.

no reason why you shouldn't kiss a girl on the first date, interested girls will kiss you on the first date, girls declining your kisses means they dont like you, that tells you not to even bother asking for a second date, you want to waste your time trying to get a second, these girls have no interest, take the hint.
 
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