Continue having non-exclusive sex with girl that is pushing for exclusivity???

[narcissist]

Is there a way to continue sleeping with a girl who is pushing for exclusivity, where we continue doing so non-exclusively?

Or will she eventually get fed up and stop putting out?

I can already feel that she is becoming hesitant with sex because she really wants to become exclusive with me and I keep avoiding it because obviously I want to keep spinning plates.

If you think it is possible could you guys please guide me on how to do it?

What is your process?

Or is it inevitable that I will have to drop her and replace her because I am not down for an LTR?

 

[narcissist]

Im thinking that I am going to have to give her a bit of satisfaction, and hint at possibly being down for exclusivity in the later future. But explain that I am the type of guy that makes sure 100% the woman is fit for my liking before I even consider it, and so far she's doing a good job, but I still have to see. Let her know I don't jump into relationship until knowing a girl for 3 months at least. Thus I secure more sex, and diverge exclusivity for the time being.

Obviously end result: No relationship. Continue to spin plates.


Two things:

1) This plan doesn't sound that good

2) I would feel like a fvcking sh1thead for doing that, but I guess thats the name of the game.



Let me know what you guys think. I do not claim to be a DJ. I am still in my apprenticeship, so if the masters could come forth and help me out. I figure I am going to have to deal with this problem a lot in the future. I wouldn't mind being prepared next time around. Thanks bosses.

 

[Turuwal]

Yes it is possible. I have done it. I have met others who have done it. I've just written up my current methods in a new thread.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=215016

P.S. I'm still doing my apprenticeship too so there could be improvements. But fvck it, learning is fun!