"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MountainSlide

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This chick that my friend is seeing brought her roommate out for drinks with us. One thing led to another and we hooked up. The next morning she bounced. Later in the day she added me to facebook. She’s kind of trashy though. Like facebook profile pictures of her in her underwear kinda thing. But I would like to hook up with her again. I also want to go and see the new Joker movie that recently came out and want to invite her to it.

Just looking for some second opinion. Should I just chill for a few more days before contacting. Or just say **** it and ask her out again.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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