Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

contact lenses

thunder_god

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 6, 2011
Messages
784
Reaction score
22
I just recently had an eye exam through an optometrist like 3 months ago for prescription for glasses but now I want to get contacts to help with my image. I was wondering if I need to go see my optometrist again in order to get contacts or can I just use my prescription from my glasses to get contacts? I would prefer not to pay again ($90) to see her since it was only 3 months ago, but if I have to, then I guess I have to.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

the_stig

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 30, 2010
Messages
466
Reaction score
56
Location
Central Time Zone
Call and ask, they might include the contact exam with the $90 or give you a discount.

I've worn contacts for the past 12 years but recently got a backup set of glasses, IIRC I saw a different eye doctor in the office and he put me through a separate set of tests (was also renewing my contacts at the time).

As far as getting contacts.. best thing you'll ever do. You'll wonder why you waited so long. The brand of contacts I use is "proclear" and they are very comfortable, never have dry eyes or irritation. It takes a little patience to work them smoothly, but after a few weeks or months, you won't look back.
 

Vice

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2007
Messages
2,004
Reaction score
186
You do need to see the optometrist again.

Consider getting surgery, I had PRK done and it is nice not having to deal with glasses/contacts.
 

amoka

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 18, 2006
Messages
1,931
Reaction score
62
You'll need a new exams and probably a new prescription for the contact lenses. Contact lens exams are different from the regular eye exam. With contact exams, the optometrist must make sure the contacts fit you and you feel comfortable with it. You'll be charged a "fitting fee" in addition to the exam fee since you have not worn contacts prior.
 

thunder_god

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 6, 2011
Messages
784
Reaction score
22
Thanks, I'm going to head to the optometrists office tomorrow to inquire about fees and booking an appointment. I need to revamp everything about me, including my image.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

thunder_god

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 6, 2011
Messages
784
Reaction score
22
Just came back from the eye clinic. Its going to cost me $60. Not as bad as I'd thought. I booked an appointment for tomorrow afternoon. I'm kind of excited but also kind of scared at the same time. Hopefully the new me will stand a better chance at getting girls then the old me.
 
Top