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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Wubbman

Don Juan

Mar 4, 2011

Thanks for the replies guys. She hasn't emailed back and I'm not going back to the dealership just to talk to her as its over 80 miles away (Its the closest dealership for my car brand). I think that would look creepy, as she knows where I'm from. Like I said, I tried several times yesterday to call her office phone (like a freakish amount; I think eight total calls or something like that). I'm gonna be busy this weekend with work as it turns out, so its no big loss. I haven't ruled out calling again next week with a much more toned down plan (ie, just drinks), but I'm not sure yet.

Thanks again for the advice. There will be others, and I'll be sure not to **** it up.

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.