Constructive critisism please....possible shi!t tests faced.

[ARrocket]

ok, I've known this girl for just under a year. She's always been really flirtatious with me, but I possibly got the LJBF a while back (not outright though...not sure). Anyhow, I moved on...but did see her on occasion in school and managed to keep my game tight).

So, she digs me again. We went out tonight...things start off a bit rocky, but I just keep escalating, to the point where I'm kissing her on the cheek. Just trying to escalate. She then starts asking me if I have a gf. I wish I responded better; I first said "A gf?" for some C&F, then said "no, I don't." NOTE: At this point, she doesn't mention she has a bf (I had no idea).

Later, she suggests we stop at starbucks (we were headed to her house). She then starts talking about some other guy. She was supposed to call him blah blah blah. Whatever. Then, she goes and calls him!! She tells me he's her bf, and I don't believe her. I go "does he know you like me better?" It was really funny because I told her I tell girls that line earlier on the date...so she started cracking up

Turns out, that IS her bf, and he's super pissed. But I don't care. Besides, she NEVER mentioned him. Later, ANOTHER guy calls her. I made both of them seem like complete wusses, and we shared a good laugh at their expense

1) How to better handle the "do you have a bf?" question?

2) When she starts talking about some other guy she was supposed to call...and even more so, when she calls him? She did end the call when we got to our destination (only spoke for a few minutes, and was interacting with me as well, but still...). Other than "I'm more fun, hang up (which is what I did), what to do? Without going overboard, mind you.

I know she's into me...she was really starting to warm up to me physically. Grrr.

 

[COD]

Well the first answer to "do u have a gf" should always be WHO CARES. Never ask if she does.......its no concern of yours..........trust me they will volunteer that info when they want to. WHY.........cause if she does it might effect the sexual state and you want to stay in that state with her.

Ok so she asks "do you have a GF"..........your reply.........

ya but I always got room for 1 more
-yes I do.............she gives me sound advice thats usually 100%.........99% sound 1 % advice.
-ya but she is not here right now............you are
-yes but you are way hotter
-well sort of we are on a break
-GF no............girl stalking me yes


OTHER MEN-keep on with with jabs at their expense, if she calls........nibble on her neck and listen in, be playful.......yur goal is to get her off............ummm of the phone.

I recall being at a chics house and men would call all the time........she rarely answered and even became pissed if they continued to call and whine. Women (most) can only entertain 1 guy at a time.........and since you are there and they are not...........YOU got a huge advantage.

 

[ARrocket]

Thanks man. Nice responses...next time I'll come up with something like that. Live and learn, right?

And yeah, I just kept messing around with her. Unfortunately I was driving, so I couldn't do all that you say

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I don't see how she's showing you that she's into you?

-You guys didn't hook up..
-She disrespected you by calling another guy while you were right there.
-She had another guy calling her
-You fuvked up by telling her what "lines" you tell to other girls


Dude your searching for gold in your bathtub..... You have zero chance with this girl and furthermore she's a major attention w-hore...........use her for social proof and start focusing on other women.



PIMP

 

[ARrocket]

I don't see how she's showing you that she's into you?

-You guys didn't hook up..

She's 16, and her mother called her and told her to bring her @ss home.

-She disrespected you by calling another guy while you were right there.
-She had another guy calling her
-You fuvked up by telling her what "lines" you tell to other girls
I was mistaken...I told that to a female friend of mine earlier that same day.


Dude your searching for gold in your bathtub..... You have zero chance with this girl and furthermore she's a major attention w-hore...........use her for social proof and start focusing on other women.



PIMP

I disagree. The question here isn't whether or not she is interested; I know that for a fact.

 

[ARrocket]

Man. I feel so sorry for the OP. He is too young to have had the opportunity to experience what women are capable of. One date and she already has him held in state; ready to have his wallet milked.

"HE KNOWS" LOL. I used to know everything, too. She is toying with you dude. You talk a big game, but don't get too big for your britches. Remember, it was not that long ago from the last time you went AFC with this chick. She'll be happy that you are now able to hold out being an AFC for quite a while longer this time, but she still knows, in the end, she can get you to crack at any time.

Until you are the man that could FK her and dump her a week later, you'll never be really "getting it".

Experience is the best teacher; and you are going to do what you're going to do, regardless. This is a necessary lesson. It's good to get it out of the way so early. I didn't learn till 27.

I talk big game because I'm the sh!t

Seriously though...what makes you think I spent a dime on her? lol I did, but she spent more on me throughout the date.

What makes you think I'll "crack?" I really don't understand what you're trying to get at here. I have no emotional attachment to this girl.

I'm leaving for another state in less then a week, and she knows this. She says she'll take me out when I come back for Christmas. I'm no ATM machine.