Constantly sexually teased by gf.

[thatfeel]

I'm 23 and when we were first getting together about a month and a half or so ago sex and playing around was pretty frequent I'd say a couple of times a week. Now she's totally switched gears and makes me always look like the ass when I try to initiate anything at night. HOWEVER, throughout the day she ****s with me by sometimes coming out of her room and pulling her shirt all the way up and then just laughing or messing around. Sometimes she'll come out in the living room and say "my ***** itches" and then completely move her shorts and underwear over and just leave it hanging right there as she rubs it. Anytime I make attempts on **** like this I get reject and anytime I make attempts in bed I get rejected.

What are your guys' thoughts?

 

[JoeMarron]

Lol..well then. I wouldn't even bother initiating or showing her any other attention for that matter. Next time she teases you just go caveman on her. Pin her down and do your thing (obviously no means no, don't rape her etc. etc.). I wouldn't be surprised if this is what she wants in the first place :yes:

 

[thatfeel]

I've tried that before, results in the same rejection in one way or the other either through actions or through words(no, not right now, no wait, etc).

 

[Weezzyy]

Then tell her this relationship is not working for you as you don't like to be teased like that without getting to have sex at the end. Either she stops her stupid childish behavior or you are done with her and find someone who will give you what you want.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I'm 23 and my gf is 49 so I recognize that her current menopausal transition

I stopped reading right there. You don't need dating advice from sosuave...you need to have your head examined by a properly qualified professional.

 

[nismo-4]

Man up and either drop her ass or make her stop teasing you. She thinks she has a golden vagina. Or she has a better man. Or she's losing desire for you.

Case closed.

 

[thatfeel]

She's definitely ****ing with me im just trying to find out why

 

[user name]

She's definitely ****ing with me im just trying to find out why

uh, cos she's a woman.

i wouldn't bother if i were u. it's a psychological black hole from which you never return...

 

[VladPatton]

You do know she could be your mom, right? Just wanted to get that out there.

Put an end to this by telling her you met a cute 20 yr old girl and spent the night with her (after you go NC for a few days). Her world, as you know it, will crumble. I bet she won't withhold sex from you anymore. Or she may end it, which you should be prepared for.

 

[Atom Smasher]

There is no "why". All women are insane, and almost all display some measure of BPD symptoms. I'm saying some measure here, not classifying them all as BPD.

This one deserves to be kicked to the curb immediately. You should have ZERO tolerance for disrespect.

Women have value in only three areas... Sex, affection, and keeping the "nest" clean and in order. What else do they bring to the table? Nothing that I've ever discerned.

You really should tell her you found someone else you are attracted too, calmly and without any hint of apology. No long explanations, just a statement of fact. She made her bed, and you'd better make sure she lies in it. This kind of behavior disgusts me. I wouldn't allow it for a second in my life.

 

[thatfeel]

I forgot to mention that we live together, lol

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Get out, this sounds like a miserable relationship. No LIE my 7yr LTR rejected me 1 time out of the whole 7 years. True story!

 

[Jaylan]

I'm 23 and when we were first getting together about a month and a half or so ago sex and playing around was pretty frequent I'd say a couple of times a week. Now she's totally switched gears and makes me always look like the ass when I try to initiate anything at night. HOWEVER, throughout the day she ****s with me by sometimes coming out of her room and pulling her shirt all the way up and then just laughing or messing around. Sometimes she'll come out in the living room and say "my ***** itches" and then completely move her shorts and underwear over and just leave it hanging right there as she rubs it. Anytime I make attempts on **** like this I get reject and anytime I make attempts in bed I get rejected.

What are your guys' thoughts?

Ill be frank.

Her attraction seems to have waned, and I suspect the end is near. Id cut the cord first if I were you. A woman whos sexually invested in you doesnt act like your gf does.

And if your girlfriend is much older than you as earlier posts indicate, its probably that her sex drive isnt as high as yours.

 

[DonGorgon]

she is done with you... and has other guys for sex.. also her respect level for you is very low.. you need tok dump her fast and hard..

 

[skinnyguy]

If I had a gf who ****teased me, I'd beat her with a 9 iron.

 

[HyperAnalyze]

I forgot to mention that we live together, lol

what the F**K.

You need to drop her, ASAP. She has little to no respect for you if she's testing you like this.

Unless you can pull a miracle play, stop wasting time with her.

 

[evan12]

she is done with you... and has other guys for sex.. also her respect level for you is very low.. you need tok dump her fast and hard..

Don't waist ur time with this guy, he seem to never learn . He is dating 49 year old woman bty .

 

[VikingKing]

Idk. My ex used to try to say "I have headache" or "I dont want." (she was chinese) I would just be like, oh come on babe... (as I was already undressing her) dude when your gf gives you lmr, **** that, when your penis begins to penetrate her vagina, she will change her mind quick. If that doesn't work your in trouble.

Seriously, I would just go for it, and it always ended up with me cvmming in her mouth, after I fvcke her till she cant walk right for like 30 mins.

Just do it.

but I mean dont raep her. Just trick her... There is a difference. idk. Just go for it really.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Would drop it faster than a wet turd.