"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Constanly change routine?

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is it ok to change ur routine every week?.. i got gym equipment for home and ive been workin out at home for about a week and a half now ( used to workout at the local gym).

also my other question is... what if i accidently workout a muscle that i dont mean to.. like i was doin just triceps today.. and i did this bench dip thingy.. and i felt something in my chest so idecided to workout chest too.. and whjen i was doing incline bench eiother the bench was too close to the bar or it was too inclined ( probly the first).. anyways so now i still feel soreness in the front of my shoulder... would that mean i shouldnt workout shoulder later in the week???? cuz i dont wanna overwork it or w/e its called.. im listening to music right now so i cant think straight.. so excuse me if i dont make any sense ;p

in fact my back hurts too but hopefully thats from skim boarding ( u gotta bend over to throw the board )and not doing an exercise improperly ;(.. i went a lil heavy on the incline and lifted my butt up
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NEWBIE101

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Don't change your routine every week. There's no need to.

Change your routine around every 2-3 months since your muscles develop muscle memory and certain exercises don't recruit as many muscle fibers anymore. Be sure to leave in core exercises such as squats, deadlifts, etc. though.

To help out with your other problem though. What's your current split like? I think I can figure something out where you're training similar muscles on the same day or they will be spaced out enough during the week.
 

KmZDon

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nooooo that's stupid and tiring, stick to one routine for about eight week and then relax for one week and then switch and so on
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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