"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is what I figured out is the best way to either keep a girl interested for a long time, or get a new girl interested.

By consistently inconsistent, I mean unpredictable, but all the time. When I was with my gf for five months (I broke it off cause I wanted to meet new people), I would be inconsistent all the time. Sometimes I would call her several times a day, and then not call her for several days in a row, and when she would call me I wouldn't answer. She couldn't get enough of me, she was constantly thinking about where I was or what I was doing. Also when I meet a girl for the first time I try to stay inconsistent with what I say. I will tell her that I don't like needy girls and that I just want to be single and look for a good time, then follow it up with saying how I;m a hopefless romantic who is looking for that one and special girl. It seems to get them laughing if they don't believe it, or it keeps them wondering if they actually do believe it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sonds like a good way to keep 'em captivated and guessing at what comes next. Tell us how it works out in the long run. :)
 

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well like i said. With one of them, i was her bf for 5 months til i cut it off. If i didnt she would have never dumped me, im pretty sure she fell in love with me, but never told me cause she knew i wouldnt say it back. If i didnt dump her it would have gone on for a pretty long time I imagine. Its just basic unpredictability, which girls complain that the problem with nice guys is their predictability.
 
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