"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Considering to buy some gun for self defence

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Agree with Bible Belt and Zekko. For home defense you want something for close quarters. An assault rifle is overkill and will not only go through the target but three or four walls as well.

If you want a close quarters rifle go with something like this. It's similar to the MP5 that a lot of special forces and swat teams use for close quarter combat but a fraction of the price.

http://www.hkparts.net/shop/pc/HK-USC-45-Carbine-New-Black-p984.htm

You'll get a rifle but with hand gun rounds which will be hollow point so they won't go through 3 walls. You want to kill the target not the little old lady who lives next door. Or you could just go with a shotgun. For handgun, there are too many to list. Do you want a wheel gun (.357) or a semi auto (Glock etc)? Keep it simple and use what feels right for you. Or just by one of everything :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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because you should Practice and practice aint cheap, Smith and Wesson Shield 9mm is best for your secondary, or an FN 45t (if you must have a 45), or a Glock whatever you want caliber cause Glock is so reliable

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Ak47, is what I have under my pillow...totally tricked-out btw
 

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I've been through hundreds of hours of firearms training. So I can tell you there's lots of good guns out there. For home defense and vehicle carry: .40 or 45 handgun with a tactical light attached. Put it in a discreet location. Go to a range and test fire several. I'm partial to Glocks myself because my life depends on one...but Springfield, H&K, Sig Sauer, and Smith and Wesson are all fine choices.
 
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Poonani Maker said:
because you should Practice and practice aint cheap, Smith and Wesson Shield 9mm is best for your secondary, or an FN 45t (if you must have a 45), or a Glock whatever you want caliber cause Glock is so reliable

Remington 12

Ak47, is what I have under my pillow...totally tricked-out btw
This reminds me I wanted to start a basketball team under the name Glocks. Anyone thing it might be successful. I already have some players which would like to be on board.
 

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If I was going to buy a single gun I would buy something cool to shoot at the range. At least get something you can have fun with.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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