"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Considering the club expierence.

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Well after switching positions at my job,I'm stuck in the back not with the public anymore. This means no more going out with customers that happened to come in,unless I happen to be front for some reason(grocery store). Since my job was my main source for picking up women and no longer is I have to find a new "fishing pond". I have considered the club scene before,but have never actually gotten to it. I heard almost all women at clubs are looking for a nice little beefcake,is this true? What are your guys expierence with "clubbing"? How many people should I go with? Any input would be nice.Sarge on!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My experince is that where i have gone the girls are like 5 years older then you and this is a very limiting factor. Sure you can get a dance out of them but in my short time that never lead anywhere because as soon as they start comming closer to you they realise how young you are and suddenly they go back to danceing with their girlfreinds.
 
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It depends on your venue. Where I'm from clubs are king. There are more hot girls in short skirts in our clubs then anywhere else in the town. Taking one home definately takes a combination of skill, cunning, and luck. The bars here are a close second but it's more of a craps shoot going into the bar if you'll find something worth taking home. Though where you're from it might be different because I doubt your town is step the same way in terms of clubs and bars. The same could be true for any two locations so you should probably just feel it out for yourself and if it doesn't work, try something else.
 
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Hmm well I may be headed to Vegas in the next couple of months. Where could I go sarging there?
 
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Well...I walked past a Gloria Jeans today (QV) carrying lunch back to work from a food court, and the place was frigging packed full of young women in groups or alone. Gotta go back!!! My point is...keep your eyes peeled. You never know where HBs hang out in your town. Sometimes it's not the most likely places.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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blinkwatt said:
Hmm well I may be headed to Vegas in the next couple of months. Where could I go sarging there?
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Assuming you're 18 and don't have a fake ID I'd stick to either Las Vegas blvd or Fremont street. There are enough opportunities there for a life time of Sarging. If you've got an ID with you, then the skies the limit. There are enough nighclubs/bars/lounges that you can mellow out have a drink and sarge at your decression.
 
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