"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Considering hanging around.. your insight requested.

Sammo

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To stay or not to stay... :D

Hey guys, I am considering spending more time at this forum. I am not really keen for it but i am INTERESTED in it, i want to get into it as kind of a hobby... an interest. I dont want it to be my crutch, i want to be at a safe level of DJ before i move on to SS. I want SS to be a PART of me, not ME.

I want girls to see me as a DJ, but i want to be able to use SS to speed things along and make things a little more interesting for me.

I am only 15 and found that girls my age arent too receptive, am i wasting my time here?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not at all.

Actually the younger the better, simply put, younger girls respond more readily to SS.

It still will take practice until you start seeing results and once you do you will be astounded.

Your confidence will skyrocket, your conversation skills will be immaculate while you'll be able to guide them with purpose and you'll be able to bag the hottest chicks you know and have them fall in love with you.

Oh yeah, SS isnt just about one night stands either. Ive been in a relationship for 6 months now and ill use SS on her to lock in feelings of connection, love, horniness etc... each night we're together (often times out of thought in regular conversation).

So you have nothing to lose and an amazing life to gain, go for it.

This link will set you on your way.
 

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lol whaaat? younger girls respond more readily to SS?


I find it the other way around. In fact, when fragmentor had his other highschool DJ forum up, i wrote a few LONG articles, likea boot camp about SSing highschool chicks.


They are overall much less mature, and tend to be afraid of talking sexually, as women dont get comfortable with sexuality until their mid-20's (usually)


also, they have less experience, and are pretty confused about what they want.

DJ SSer: "have you ever met someone, and right away you felt ..yada yada yada..."


YOUNG HB: "no"

:)


also

DJ SSer: "When you think about the perfect guy for you, how does he make you feel?"

young HB: "I dunno... good."


:D


The thing is, for highschool girls, a lot of the time we have to tweak the "SS" code, and spend a lot more time describing to them, and feeding them input.


and a lot of the tie you have to do it very subtly.


Im 15 too :) and NLP/SS is fine to learn at this age.

You are never too young to learn something new.
 

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This Quote Sounds Better In Spanish but...

" He who hangs around bee's & honey, something will eventually stick to him"
 
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