"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Considering a Vasectomy

Augustus_McCrae

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Infidelity, pregnancy scares, child support, court jurisdiction over your life, being a woman's b!tch financially and legally, etc. have me considering a vasectomy.

The number of ways in which women can ruin our lives is incredible. We have a generation of entitled women happy to criminalize men and the white knights behind them make it all worse. The worst part is that they get all this power from our seeds. Once a woman is pregnant with your baby, she can practically take control over your life.

So what are the alternatives? I really can't see myself getting married or staying with the same woman for 18 years. And the dating pool out there is making me disappointed to say the least. I rather grow old without children or raise my own or an adopted child by myself than to have children with the wrong woman and regret it.

Has anybody else considered getting a vasectomy? Serious things at stake here.
Two things to consider:

Be absolutely positive you never want to have children.

Also, be aware that a very small percentage of guys have post vascectomy pain in their balls. To be clear, I’m not talking about post op pain. This pain can last for months or years. I had it for about 6 months. And let me tell you, I was a miserable SOB. Thankfully, it went away.

Here's a link: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-vasectomy_pain_syndrome

On the up side, I haven’t had to use a condom or worry about getting a woman pregnant for 15 years.

-Augustus-
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Two things to consider:

Be absolutely positive you never want to have children.

Also, be aware that a very small percentage of guys have post vascectomy pain in their balls. To be clear, I’m not talking about post op pain. This pain can last for months or years. I had it for about 6 months. And let me tell you, I was a miserable SOB. Thankfully, it went away.

Here's a link: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-vasectomy_pain_syndrome

On the up side, I haven’t had to use a condom or worry about getting a woman pregnant for 15 years.

-Augustus-
and you also wont see your kid becoming a milionaire or president, dont forget that most women WANT family
 

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and you also wont see your kid becoming a milionaire or president, dont forget that most women WANT family
Most women want to ride the c0ck carousel, and true, most women want family.

Funny how that works, as they usually end up with a family of c0cks. So, who wants to be with a slut? Not me.
 

Augustus_McCrae

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and you also wont see your kid becoming a milionaire or president, dont forget that most women WANT family
And yes, I’m so glad that I had children before I had mine. I can’t imagine my life without them.

-Augustus-
 

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Not sure what you mean by "vasectomies are VERY liberating for the woman." Please elaborate more into what you want to communicate.
I only have sex inside of a relationship, so that is my perspective.

I've dated men who had vasectomies. My ex husband got one after we had two kids.

When there is no fear of pregnancy, ac woman doesn't have to take birth control. This means she cycles normally and will LUST after you for a straight week, when she ovulates. Ovulation creates an animalistic need, for sex, in women. We must seed that egg, we are driven.

The other three weeks will be just as fun because no fear of pregnancy lends completely to spontaneity.

It's just so care free.

Again, just my experiences/opinion.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Two things to consider:

Be absolutely positive you never want to have children.

Also, be aware that a very small percentage of guys have post vascectomy pain in their balls. To be clear, I’m not talking about post op pain. This pain can last for months or years. I had it for about 6 months. And let me tell you, I was a miserable SOB. Thankfully, it went away.

Here's a link: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-vasectomy_pain_syndrome

On the up side, I haven’t had to use a condom or worry about getting a woman pregnant for 15 years.

-Augustus-
A vasectomy doesn't protect against STDs so condoms would definitely still be in the picture for me.
 
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