"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Considering a long break from dating

HenBogan

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I am still pretty funked over with my latest split...

I am knee deep in The Power of Now, Rationale Male, Way of the Superior Man etc... Plus with all the information on this forum my head is spinning.

So I have been deliberating with the notion that maybe it's time to take a step back from the dating malarkey...

I am certainly jaded from a brace of failed relationships over the last 12 months.... I now realise that I have some things I need to work through regarding myself and poonski exile maybe what I need...

So I wanted to ask how long was your longest self imposed break and what did you learn from it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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