"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mr. Debonaire

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a little something to consider. everybody hang on cause this is gonna be deep

i have noticed on this forum that alot of people talk about how pissed off at themselves they are at a missed opportunity to hook up with a girl or whatever. my question is why.

whether or not you liked the matrix movies you have to admit that they raised alot of interesting questions. the oracle always claims that we have already made our choices, now we only need to understand them. by every action we take or don't take we are being led towards a destiny that already exists for us. but due to a future we cannot see, we fail to understand that every girl you get, every grade you receive, and every lesson you learn is all just steps on the path to the rest of your life.

Don't follow? Consider this

say that babe you want to hook up with shoots you down. As you are walking away feeling dejected, you bump into another girl and knock her down. she is a girl you have seen before, but you never really noticed her until now. you help her up and maybe you end up getting her phone number. this may be the girl you spend the rest of your life with, but if that hottie didn't reject you you never would have met her.

so whatever happens we all must learn to role with the punches and accept that whatever happens happens for a reason. we all have a destiny, and the everyday events we take for granted are sending us all down our own long and winding road.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nice; cool insight.

However, I subscribe to the premise that I control my own destiny and it is not predetermined for me.
However successful I become in life in matter of the ladies, money, social status and anything is what I decide.

And no one else has a say in it ;-)

"Life's not fair - and that's great" ~David DeAngelo
 

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my point is that we decide our own destiny. we control our lives, but our future is there and the choices we make eventually create that future for us. or rather, instead of creating that future, we can "see" it
 

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:p the matrix is by far the most popular metaphor of our time. Anyways a line I liked was "Stop trying to hit me and hit me" The post was good, similar to a couple in the bible. "This is your life, and it's passing by minute by minute" -Fight Club...lol

What people need to understand is that "Every second is a chance to turn it all around" -Vanilla Sky



Wait a minute.... I though art imitated life, not the other way around :confused:
 

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Hey cool, a fortune cookie thread. I love these!



"I don't believe it!"

"That is why you fail"

:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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