"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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conquer your campus: giving love

asianbboy

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You’re going to have rules for how you talk to girls. Drop the James Bond **** – it
doesn’t work. As I became more confident, it became a part of my character to walk up
to girls and give them a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I was ALWAYS excited to see my
girls and so should you be. Even if it’s a girl you’ve only met once or twice.
“Samantha, you are the ****ing hottest thing in the world, come here (hug). What the
**** have you been up to, come here, tell me…”
So, is this a good mindset to have? seems contradictory to not dishing out compliments. good idea to put on a big smile? i usually do but theres been discussion
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LearningSlowly

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"You're the ****ing hottest thing in the world, come here" yeahhhh sonnn. That's game. Positivity, love, sexuality.
 
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