"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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congruency on looks

KnightRyder

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Just curious to know, usually we guys rate a women out of ten , what if one guy finds a woman a lot hotter than another, such if one guy gives a woman a hb5 , but i give her a hb9 .. can that happen ?

Do we all see looks equally ? Is that the same for women looking at us ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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No_Sleep

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No everyone see girls differently. If all guys were attracted to the same type of girl... u can just imagine that outcome. a HB5 for one guy might be a HB8 to someone else because maybe the first guys doesnt like redheads and the other guys does.
 

Mercenary

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stop using the "C" word.

1. we don't need any more buzzwords on the board

2. it was improper usage in this instance
 

AMF

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He meant "consensus".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Omega

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Yes of course, which is why you can't pick all women up .
 

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10 - Excellent Body, Excellent Face.
9 - Excellent Body, Great Face,
8 - Great Body, Great Face.
7 - Great Body, Average Face.
6 - Average Body, Average Face.
5 - Average Body, Below Average Face.
4 - Below Average Body, Below Average Face.
3 - Below Average Body, Ugly Face.
2 - Ugly Body, Ugly Face
1 - Super Ugly

+1/2 in looks if personality is awesome (honest, knows stuff, little games, little tests, mid-high interest level)

-1/2 in looks if personality is ugly (dishonest, whiny, lots of games, lots of tests, low-mid interest level)

-1/2 depending on how much makeup she usually puts on.

Why do you see below average/below average guys with non gold-digging HB6s-8s?

Average Guy = 6+2 in personality = 8.

Below Average Guy = 4+2 in personality = 6

I have a friend, he's average looking. Me and him notice a hot looking 21 year old girl at a bar. I told him, dude go there. he said no thanks. I ask him why. He told me "She wears too much makeup, dresses like a h0, and acts like a stupid giggly h0 - she is below my standards"

She seemed like a HB8, but from the way he was judging her she became a HB4. Below his standard.
 
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