"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The other sites will be next - backpage, seeking arrangement, addultfriendfinder, hell even Tinder could go down to this insanity. The new law says that if anyone peddles a sex slave over a web site, then the owners of that web site are subject not only to civil, but also criminal liability.

And why stop there? If someone p1sses me off on sosuave, and I track them down in real life and beat them up, did sosuave commit a crime? That Allen guy, who owns this place but is never around, should he go to jail if that happens?

https://www.theverge.com/2018/3/23/17155110/craigslist-personal-ads-anti-sex-trafficking-bill
Craigslist will no longer display personal ads after passage of sex trafficking bill

The company said it doesn’t want to jeopardize its business


https://www.congress.gov/bill/115th-congress/house-bill/1865
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my my my, what's a hoe to do?:p

the streets? That's soooo 1995!!!
 

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So much for spending a couple hundred bucks for “hot” women for the rest of some guys lives.

Now they either really have to learn some game or move to Vegas.
The thing about the black market is that it never goes away. Websites will simply go offshore. There’s an escort website with home operations in Canada, where ads for prostitution are legal.
 

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The woman writing this article is a freaking prime example of "faux liberated" women who ride the carousel and think they're "empowered" and yet get emotionally and mentally destroyed as a result.

She goes from bragging "I could order sex as easily as I could order a pizza, I met some guy in my dorm and I didn't even bother taking my shoes off" and "I would smirk at men who thought a d*ckpic would get a woman's attention"

Immature attention wh*ring and putting herself on a pedestal, how attractive. She's on the most casual sex site ever and she's laughing at d*ck pics, what does she even expect? I mean, yes they're gross but she's on a site where people do exactly that FFS.

Then one paragraph later it's "I had to undergo therapy for sexual trauma and [have a lock to stop me getting sex off Craigslist]"!

This is the exact same s*** I know a low self-esteem friend of mine used to do. She was boasting to me of her exploits (and ridiculing my disdain and lack of sexual experience) and then a week later she's telling me she hooked up with a guy on Craiglist and started crying when they had sex. Yeah, you're really a big clever sexually switched on girl to be getting yourself in that state, aren't you? Jesus.

I really can't stand this attitude because it reeks of simultaneous arrogance and insecurity. "HA, I'm so above these pathetic men that I'm f*cking, LOL! SO EMPOWERED. High value female! Oh, but I need therapy now because I've been mind-f*cked by the massive amount of low quality, STI-laden c*ck I've been madly ingesting."

To give a male example, because I'm not hating on women here - just dumb promiscuity... I know a friend who had a gym bud who had a mental breakdown after his divorce. He f*cked 300 women in one year and just stopped caring about anything other than sticking his d*ck in as many women as he could at any cost.

That didn't make him a badass alpha male - it made him a trainwreck loser who would f*ck anything and anyone, looks or STIs be damned. He might even have made a few pregnant for all he knows.

Acting like a promiscuous sl*t who will bang anything and being enslaved by your genitals is not "empowered", whether you are male or female.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The more options that men have for no BS sex such as hookers, robots, no strings attached encounters on Craigslist, etc. then the less power women have as a collective. This is just another blow to keep the deck stacked in the female collectives court.
 

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The more options that men have for no BS sex such as hookers, robots, no strings attached encounters on Craigslist, etc. then the less power women have as a collective. This is just another blow to keep the deck stacked in the female collectives court.
White knights have given women more power than they know what to do with. Now is the part when they fukk things up and end up as old hags.

 

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that website craigslist was ALWAYS shady as YUCK. althrough tinder can be used in same purpose, it appears much more sane. Doubt it will get closed. But if it would, at least chicks would be less entitled
 

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Wish they would close any OLD site, its basically a losing bet for the average man anyway while a boost for ANY women, ugly ones too.

While Im against censorship or intervention from the gov, given the choice between screwing only what works for men and screwing everything, I pick the second.
 

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I was on CL for YEARS...I banged by my estimate at least 30 women on there,all of them fvckin super freaks,I must have posted several thousand c0ck pics on that site and it was all fvckin free,RIP CL you will be missed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know a friend who had a gym bud who had a mental breakdown after his divorce. He f*cked 300 women in one year and just stopped caring about anything other than sticking his d*ck in as many women as he could at any cost.
There is a name for that: Sex addiction. Yeah, it's definitely not healthy. Some people drink their sorrows away, other fvck their sorrows away.
 

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you can get hot girls to do photo shoot through there so that a plus
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wasn't that site used for hookers?

Seems like a good reason to shut it down. I imagine only incels would use such a thing.
You seem to have incel mixed up with sex addict.

Cheering the destruction of personal freedoms and the empowerment of the state is indeed the essense of fascism.
 

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Sex addicts with no options for an outlet would be an incel.

I am not in support of the human trafficking industry. But I imagine incels are unable to consider that sort of thing.
Ahh, the right wing narrative...up is down, war is peace, freedom is slavery, and guys who have a lot of sex are celibate.

Not to let reality get in the way of your judgment casting, but the law you are cheering on is absurd. For example, the 19 yo former prom queen near me used to peddle her ass on craigslist for $200. If I were to post a link to her ad on sosuave, not only CL, but also the Allen Thompson guy who owns sosuave would then be both civilly and criminally liable as though they were pimping that girl on the street corner. The law is a giant government power grab, ridiculously unconstitutional, and founded in ignorance.
 

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Interestingly, most people that consider themselves incels won't pay for sex. They could, but they refuse to because it would feel like a bigger slap in the face than being rejected in real life.
Incels are fvcked up because what they crave is not sex but validation through sex, they want to be accepted not release.

Hitting escorts once in a while its perfectly normal for businessmen or militaries while its not the norm for incels cause that would make them feel even more miserable.

Those who hit escorts the most are not desperate guys unable to get some but either married men looking for something their old fat wives cant provide or simply successful men that would rather spend their time getting something for their effort rather than wasting time on something with a low rate of retur.

That thing that men hit escorts cause they cant get women its a global bvllsh1t that women use to shame men when the juice is not worth the squeeze and they cut the chase.
 
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There are some nuggets of truth in here, but let's be honest for a moment.

If you could get laid with women on a regular basis using just game and no money, wouldn't you do so?
Of course, but what about the fact that it's a time sink? You have to make it somewhat of a hobby.

Also, you have to deal with women getting clingy and trying to trap you. Emotional turmoil is par for the course.

I can certainly understand why some guys would rather pay.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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