Confusion

[Griña]

Hi
Buddies
I need to hear your opinions, I am in the middle of a difficult situation. I was with a girl for 6 months, and 2 weeks after we broke up she told me she was pregnant. I told her to abort and she didnt want. I am studying, I dont have a job. I prefered telling this because I didnt love her already.
Well, she told me that I didnt have to worry about it because she would have the baby alone with her family and she would get a father for the bb.
The problem is that her friend called me two months ago and told me that her fathers made Laura leave her house. Laura was living in her friend house and her friend told me to take Laura out. I had to take her to a cheap appartment just for take the bb in adoption, she agreed wit me in a first moment, but now since a month ago she said that still loved me and want to have the bb with me.
I would like to hear your advices buddies. I dont love her, and I cant have a baby right now.
Griña

 

[Sasha]

Love have a lot to do in a relationship, but RESPONABILITY has more!

 

[Alphathree]

This is a horrbile forum to ask such a question.

Are you in school? There are usually tons of counselling services available for this sort of problem. You might find help where you don't expect it.

 

[JonJack]

Tell this girl how you feel about her. If she still decides to keep the baby, I suggest you start reading up on family law or whatever law there is that has to do with being a parent. As the father, you have certain responsibilities over this baby. I strongly suggest you do not run away from them. Even if she decides to keep the baby and not want anything in return from you, offer it anyway. Ignore it and you're just going through life with a very short-sighted view of things.