"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Ok..ive been asking myself this question everytime i read Pooks Articles

According to pook..you shoudl be the "Prize" or the Golden Catch..you should stop giving her too much attention..you should do a Cool detachment but in a way that wouldnt make you look like an *******...

that i can do..


now i also know the fact that you have to make her feel "Special"..charm, etc.. Now how can i make her feel special?? when iam actually not giving her too much attention?? or how could i make her feel special.. when iam suppose to not give a **** about her??

hehe kinda funny though..anyways aany advice would be greatly appreciated..thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jonny football hero

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I don't think that you should "not give a sh!t about her" per say, rather that you shouldn't put her on a pedestal, "attention is like you currency, if you give her too much, she'll walk away"
 

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well my opinion on this would be quite simple. in my experience, it would be wise to make her feel special then afterwards stop showing her attention that much.

she will feel a lack of attention and therefore seek you to make her feel special again. this will raise her interest level even more.

however, i have also realized that different girls obviously react differently to such techniques.. use techniques depending on how you feel she would react. hope this helps. :)
 

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what pook means is that, show her you like her, drop a compliment in from time to time but not to often. But at the same time do not shower her in attention. give her lots of attention some of the time and less the rest of the time. remember do not seem needy show her you wnat her but that you do not need her. 1 way of doing this is by making sure she knows lots of girls want you

hope iv been a help
 
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