"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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simple

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Hello there,


My story is a little bit complicated but i will appreciate any feedback. I met this lovely girl at church, and we got chating and got on really well so i invited her to one of our weekly meetings as she was fairly new to our church.


She turned up that night and at the end of the session she ofered to drop me home and i accepted. To cut the long story short, i got her number but did not call her.

I texted her inviting her to a social event we were hosting, but she texted back saying she could not make it but will come next time.


Now the next time i saw her she came in with a fella whom she introduced as her other half. I got chatting with the guy, whom seemed very nice anyway so i made my mind up to BACK OFF.

Actually before she brought her boyfriend whom she never mentioned she had although i did not ask. i invited her to another evening meeting but she did not turn up, so i texted to find out what hapened she did not reply.


Moving on after meeting her boyfriend she said he was not going to be here long he was going back abroad.


2weeks pased he went back, i asked about him she says things are complicated. We went to a friends birthday party together, had a laugh in the car on our way there, there was chemistry between us and not to mention she picked me up and insisted on us going together.

When she dropped me off i got out of the car, did not invite in as i was worried about conveying the wrong impression. She looked like she was lingering around before she left.

I called her that same night, to tell her the night was still young. She said if i had told her beore she left, or before she got home, she would have turned back.


Now here was i thinking am in there, but the next day i texted her i was taking her bowling. She texted back saying if anything not bowling. So i asked what she wanted to do, and she replied with something as come up, have got to go to a friends\party but she asked if we can go out next weekend and i said yes.


Saw her at church the next day, we chatted, she dropped me off and i told her to call me during the week. i did not invite her in. I must say she looked slightly dissapointed as she pulled off.

She did not call so i called on a wednesday she did not answer or return my call. So on saturday i texted to confirm she was still able to make it as agreed and she said she has visitors coming round so won't be able to make it. She also apologised for not returning my call caliming she's had a very busy week.

The next day she did not turn up at church. What do you guys think is going on as i am quite interested in her and in the proces of deciding if it is worth pursuing or not.

regards

simple
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lebRambo

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w...t...f? you could have invited her in TWICE and you didn't? Even AFTER she said that she would have turned back if you told her earlier?

Dude, just make a move. Seriously, the next time she drops you off home, invite her in for a movie, coffee, check out your CDs, WHATEVER!

Interested girls will make it easy for you. It seems like she's already decided that she would like to come into your house. What up with you?
 

happyguy151

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Hey man! the fact is You really like this girl! she really likes you! Do something about it before you lose your chance. Invite her to your place or take her out somewhere for the day/evening whatever just the two of you, have fun and tell her that you do like her a lot! because she might not realise how you feel with all the mixed signals you have been giving her. Good luck with everything bro! :)
 
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