This older chick (39), been talking for about 3-4 weeks, never have i talked or tried to have sex with her, wanted to triump the P*ssy card, and show interest in her, i know most guys deal with females with their D*ck in their hand and thats what makes them put their guards up, but i think i made a move way to early, just read below..need to know how can i revert from all this and go back to the "Previous State" we were in.
Ok I was at her crib Monday morning ( I was at her crib Friday and Saturday also) , she was cooking some sausages and grits and ask me if i wanted some, she fixed the plate, i ate, she was like "If it aint enough i'll cook some more "
So we talked for about 15 min then i was like im about to go and told her i will call her, she was like what im rushing away for, i tried to grab her hand she wouldnt let me, i asked for a hug and she was like ill get one next time, so i still went up for a hug, she opened the door back up, i hugged her and i grabbed her ass and she got mad af saying thats what shes talking about, her and her friends was just talking about how men cant get to know a woman without them putting their hands on them, and how she thinks its disrespectful and how she didnt even let her ex do it in public and also dudes who do that their numbers get deleted. So she slowly starts pushing me out the door, im trying to tell her it aint nothing like that she just says "Call me" and closed the door. So im getting emotional and thinking i missed out on ****ing with her, so later that day i rode pass her street, not on her street but pass it, i saw her car in the drive way, so i was gone head back out another way but the neighboorhood so big and i dont know my way around so i decided to turn around and try to go back pass her street to make bit back out the main entrance, and the moment i hit pass her street she was coming up the street pulling out her drive way facing toward the street i was on passing her street, i know she saw me because i made the first turn to hide until she passed by but she never came pass, im thinking she went the opposite way because she saw me go out the main entrance idk...i want to call her tonight but damn i dont know if she saw me or not you feel me..if she did how can i play it off?? this **** crazy, i shouldv'e just played it cool but i reacted with my emotions.
Also i cant tell what is going on, is it another dude or some. Im like damn Ive been to your crib 3x , you telling me i can come over when i want, ive chilled in your bed with you before,ect and i cant even grabb the ass?? Does she think i just want sex?
A female friend told me She probally dont want me to think or look at her like she's easy or a hoe, was also told she might not be feeling me like that as of yet but im like damn im in her crib (3x), she fed me and was willing to cook more, wanted me to bring my little brother over to play with her kids,ect..
Havent called her yet, really dont know how to reapproach her after driving by her crib and possibly seeing me, idk...help me out. **** got me hella confused.
Should i call her?? I honestly feel i need to man up and ask her whats going on..iv'e been wanting to call her just aint have the guts, especially after driving pass her street. I just need to know for myself that shes not interested no more and the only way to do that is to call, if she doesnt answer or call back then i will know whats up and i will move on.
This is the message she sent me last Friday after me not talking to her for 4 days because we was supposed to meet at her crib last sunday but she was in another city with her dad she says, so i figured she was lying and basically dropped her, then after four days she sent me this text on tagged and invited me to her crib which was my first day going over there (Found out after getting to her crib her phone was really off):
Im just confused as hell and i dont know if im getting played or what smh
Ok I was at her crib Monday morning ( I was at her crib Friday and Saturday also) , she was cooking some sausages and grits and ask me if i wanted some, she fixed the plate, i ate, she was like "If it aint enough i'll cook some more "
So we talked for about 15 min then i was like im about to go and told her i will call her, she was like what im rushing away for, i tried to grab her hand she wouldnt let me, i asked for a hug and she was like ill get one next time, so i still went up for a hug, she opened the door back up, i hugged her and i grabbed her ass and she got mad af saying thats what shes talking about, her and her friends was just talking about how men cant get to know a woman without them putting their hands on them, and how she thinks its disrespectful and how she didnt even let her ex do it in public and also dudes who do that their numbers get deleted. So she slowly starts pushing me out the door, im trying to tell her it aint nothing like that she just says "Call me" and closed the door. So im getting emotional and thinking i missed out on ****ing with her, so later that day i rode pass her street, not on her street but pass it, i saw her car in the drive way, so i was gone head back out another way but the neighboorhood so big and i dont know my way around so i decided to turn around and try to go back pass her street to make bit back out the main entrance, and the moment i hit pass her street she was coming up the street pulling out her drive way facing toward the street i was on passing her street, i know she saw me because i made the first turn to hide until she passed by but she never came pass, im thinking she went the opposite way because she saw me go out the main entrance idk...i want to call her tonight but damn i dont know if she saw me or not you feel me..if she did how can i play it off?? this **** crazy, i shouldv'e just played it cool but i reacted with my emotions.
Also i cant tell what is going on, is it another dude or some. Im like damn Ive been to your crib 3x , you telling me i can come over when i want, ive chilled in your bed with you before,ect and i cant even grabb the ass?? Does she think i just want sex?
A female friend told me She probally dont want me to think or look at her like she's easy or a hoe, was also told she might not be feeling me like that as of yet but im like damn im in her crib (3x), she fed me and was willing to cook more, wanted me to bring my little brother over to play with her kids,ect..
Havent called her yet, really dont know how to reapproach her after driving by her crib and possibly seeing me, idk...help me out. **** got me hella confused.
Should i call her?? I honestly feel i need to man up and ask her whats going on..iv'e been wanting to call her just aint have the guts, especially after driving pass her street. I just need to know for myself that shes not interested no more and the only way to do that is to call, if she doesnt answer or call back then i will know whats up and i will move on.
This is the message she sent me last Friday after me not talking to her for 4 days because we was supposed to meet at her crib last sunday but she was in another city with her dad she says, so i figured she was lying and basically dropped her, then after four days she sent me this text on tagged and invited me to her crib which was my first day going over there (Found out after getting to her crib her phone was really off):
Im just confused as hell and i dont know if im getting played or what smh
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