"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Confusion over bootcamp WEEK 4/5?

Amateur_FOR_NOW

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In week 4 it says that we have to get 10 rejections and then in week 5 it says to set up a date from the phone number,BUT I GOT 10 REJECTIONS AND NO PHONE NUMBERS SO HOW COULD I SET A DATE,they told me just to get 10 rejections!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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just try to get a number and a date. You should be striving hard to get numbers not unlike in week 4 when you are intentionally picking up to get rejected.
 

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scorpio king said:
just try to get a number and a date. You should be striving hard to get numbers not unlike in week 4 when you are intentionally picking up to get rejected.
Aha,so I don't proceed to week five until I get at least one number?
 

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Shezz said:
I modified Week#5 of the Bootcamp - try this:

Your task is to obtain as many phone numbers as you can from HBs that you dont know (ie cold approaches) - any method can be used but try to use solid game to #close these girls, remember to always build a connection, rapport and comfort with girls before going for the number (or if your feeling Alpha - a fclose!)

From here - you then set up the dates, the purpose of week#4 was to nullify any existing fears of approaching - giving you more confidence to take into week#5!

Good Luck

Sarge On...
Thanks a lot....one more question....how long should it take me to talk to her so I can #close and it is very hard to find an opener for talking to her and even if I do open, it's hard to continue talking more than a minute
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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