"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Confusion over bootcamp WEEK 4/5?

Amateur_FOR_NOW

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In week 4 it says that we have to get 10 rejections and then in week 5 it says to set up a date from the phone number,BUT I GOT 10 REJECTIONS AND NO PHONE NUMBERS SO HOW COULD I SET A DATE,they told me just to get 10 rejections!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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scorpio king

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just try to get a number and a date. You should be striving hard to get numbers not unlike in week 4 when you are intentionally picking up to get rejected.
 

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scorpio king said:
just try to get a number and a date. You should be striving hard to get numbers not unlike in week 4 when you are intentionally picking up to get rejected.
Aha,so I don't proceed to week five until I get at least one number?
 

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Shezz said:
I modified Week#5 of the Bootcamp - try this:

Your task is to obtain as many phone numbers as you can from HBs that you dont know (ie cold approaches) - any method can be used but try to use solid game to #close these girls, remember to always build a connection, rapport and comfort with girls before going for the number (or if your feeling Alpha - a fclose!)

From here - you then set up the dates, the purpose of week#4 was to nullify any existing fears of approaching - giving you more confidence to take into week#5!

Good Luck

Sarge On...
Thanks a lot....one more question....how long should it take me to talk to her so I can #close and it is very hard to find an opener for talking to her and even if I do open, it's hard to continue talking more than a minute
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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