Confusing girl with father issues - a disaster soon?

[lover4721]

So she isn't on anti-depressants. She is on birth control. Oh brother.

I had an ex that had hormonal imbalance. She had her period for a year... I screwed up her period with plan B one night and it just went downhill. She didn't want to get checked which I like because it shows they are private with their body and will only allow me to see things...

So she was on birth control and man was she a b1tch. She would yell at me for not having a pen within the second she asked for one. Pretty soon, she ended it by cheating on this guy. Well those two are so crazy. She put him in jail and now back with him lol.
But I may really need to reconsider this because I don't think I can handle someone like I did.

DO NOT fall for it bro. They usually look good on the surface. My BPD ex is going to Syracuse university on a full scholarship !!! She is very religious and she does not party. She cooks, cleans and would do anything for her boyfriend. Everyone thinks she's an angel. Im sure you would think she has a good head on her shoulders, but she DOES NOT.

That's what they do, they are so charming, get everyone to like them and sympathize with them. Once the hook you its over. They will Fvck you up !

Next example is my HPD ex. She bought me to this site. She was HOT . Straight A student. She's going to the university of florida. Never drunk, never smoked. Was a VIRGIN at the time we dated. She ended up ****ing me up. Cluster B girls will mess u up man. I still feel the scars from the HPD ex and i'm still going thru this mess with my bpd ex.

These h0es have hidden agenda man. They are all super manipulative .Don't do it

Well really, I don't feel good being this guy that screwed her over. She definitely posted statuses about stupid quotes and got her two best friends that liked me, and her Mom liking it and I feel pathetic for not giving this an all chance.

She did say "I mean you were fine. Now since roles seemed to change, you don't like it." Basically because I did the chase just now, messaging her to see if we are getting together.

Yep. A rational human being doesn't consider the exception when making decisions. Sure she might be the rare person who makes it through a fvcked up childhood and grows up to be a normal, sane person but there's no reason to take that risk. OP if you were about to fly on a plane with a 90% failure rate you wouldn't be asking "what if this is actually one of the good planes?" you'd get the hell off in a heartbeat. She's damaged and there's nothing you can do about it. Next.

Haha I wouldn't get on that airplane is correct.

 

[lover4721]

Maybe you guys are right. She shows no interest anymore. No life. Just nothing.

It's upsetting lol. You meet someone and its going SO good... like amazingly good. And then bam.

I'm just getting tired of it happening all the time. Everyone that likes me, I don't like.

And honestly, I'm very poor with moving on.

 

[Sofomore]

This thread needs to end. You got your advice now take it or leave it. Stop complaining.

 

[youngmack]

Maybe you guys are right. She shows no interest anymore. No life. Just nothing.

It's upsetting lol. You meet someone and its going SO good... like amazingly good. And then bam.

I'm just getting tired of it happening all the time. Everyone that likes me, I don't like.

And honestly, I'm very poor with moving on.

See?..

 

[lover4721]

This thread needs to end. You got your advice now take it or leave it. Stop complaining.

Haha thank you for contributing absolutely nothing to this thread.
It is weird because I was going to end this thread by saying everyone was helpful, but I'm glad I didn't say anything like that. You proved me wrong. You are the one complaining right now, no one else. lol.
Nice!

 

[Paintballguy]

Maybe you guys are right. She shows no interest anymore. No life. Just nothing.

It's upsetting lol. You meet someone and its going SO good... like amazingly good. And then bam.

I'm just getting tired of it happening all the time. Everyone that likes me, I don't like.

And honestly, I'm very poor with moving on.

Girls like her don't have normal emotions. You just have to cut all contact and move on. My ex was the same way. When I broke it off with her over a month ago, I haven't heard a peep from her since. They just don't care. They are already trying to find another victim.

 

[lover4721]

We hung out Friday! She and I went to her college. Came back home. She didn't want to go on a walk or anything, she asked me what she wanted to do, and we just watched a movie... again.

Her brother came, she walked me out, gave me a hug and left.

So anyhow, day after, she randomly texted me. It was SO weird. I had a nightmare and I thought of her and like I randomly woke up and told this friend I thought of her and rush of emotions woke me up, but she hadn't text messaged me yet. Put my phone down, and she texts me! Like it was so weird...

We are talking and two hours elapses and she asks if I still want to know her feelings. I kinda pushed away from her and I think she noticed it which is why she asked about her feelings. I kinda said I wasn't only want to focus on the outcome of this situation and wanted to date more. She said "Let's talk later!" and I asked if she wanted to call and she said yes. I said have a good day and she said "It's nothing special, just working" and I didn't reply. I viewed her dating profile and she hasn't been on since the 22 which is normal and the last time I knew she was on. I look again and see that she was on! How weird, she finally goes on right after I am happy that she hasn't gone on.

However, since I kinda pushed away and kinda wanting her to do the chasing (I was a dumbass and started to chase her and she KNOWS it...!), she became a bit curious on if I found someone else and I think she went on to see. I didn't go on because if it doesn't say she viewed my profile, I'd feel odd.

So yeah! I don't think she would have messaged me if she didn't feel anything. And I also think, she would have wasted her breathe just to tell me she didn't have feelings. She would have text messaged me. Anyone can tell anyone they don't have feelings, but they will always hold in positive feelings if the other partner doesn't seem interested.

Like she knows I pushed away and if she really hated me, she would have said "Okay douchebag just ignore me and don't reply back. I don't have feelings for you."

I don't know but that is where we are at now. I'm kinda pushing away from this situation. 'The Art of Seduction' says, if women take over the game that men play, it will forever confuse the guy. Totally true. And she knows that she took over the game because I told her my feelings and she didn't reply. She told me her feelings before meeting, and I didn't really acknowledge them.

Anyhow! I also kinda think she enjoys space because some of her body language may have shown it. I screwed up while trying to hold her hand and kiss.

 

[lover4721]

I read "The art of seduction" and re-played the part of making the bold move. I had to replay it about 15+ times until I realize... everything they said up to this point, she used...

The bracelet idea! That came from the idea of giving your partner a gift so they won't be able to forget you...

Limits... she said 'No sex until we are committed. Nothing sexual of any kind.' Since it combines two people, she needed commitment.

When we met, she didn't show me any emotions... she was SOOO interested before meeting. Sent me quotes... pictures... messages... When she didn't show me any feelings when we met, my mind was wondering about what went wrong. That exact line is in the book.

So many more examples. So guys, this book works and I recommend it. I can probably assure you she read it about 500 times.

The book even mentioned women doing it to guys, how it will make us think like crazy.

So in all, she was the best teacher I ever had.

So, this story is closed. Chapter ended for now.

 

[lover4721]

I got over her until last night when I was thinking about what she might be telling people about me.

The thing is, what is bothering me now, is that I feel like I now am talked about badly... like her Mother not liking me because I didn't come visit after she said "See you later!" I also feel like I am 'just another douchebag' in her words. I feel like crap because I think she might be blaming it my fault!

 

[goodganji44]

All 15 of your posts have been about ONE chick. Your AFCism is sickening. You need to spin some more plates and give her the gift of missing you. Bench this btch. Make her earn her way back to the starting lineup