"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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confusing first date

h_amati

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Yesterday had a first date with a girl I met some weeks ago. It went good, she asked a lot of questions, talked a lot, touched my arm when she was talking and hugged me when we said good-bye. Although she looked good, she made excuses for the way she looks and how she was dressed. Made a lot of references for catching a movie or getting pizza later on.

Thing is she leaves the day after tomorrow and will come to the city on the weekends. She is deciding if she stays or leaves to study in another country.

How should I play this?.

TIA.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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chlywly

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Umm why the hell would you ask us? If you're interested in her then go for it, if not then don't !?!? :D Don't get so confused or caught up..... date her have fun, get laid :) Figure out what you want, silly to ask us what you should do.
 

h_amati

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What would you do about her leaving and wanting to date her?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by chlywly Figure out what you want, silly to ask us what you should do. [/B]
I agree, you will never know what to do if you never figure out exactly what you want. Stop reacting to what is going on and start making things happen yourself.
 
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