"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Confuser, you decifer..

Lost1

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I already know a good answer but..

So, I go to the bar, and this girl walks by totally eye funks me and then comes back eye funks me again. Walks out of the bar comes back in and says "hey I couldn't find who I was looking for. So here's my number you should call me.

I text later on and she loves me..eating me up..So we talk for awhile we hangout a couple days later..

We hangout and hit off pretty well I got her on her back making out with her and things were going very smoothly. She states my mouth hurts from making out i just got a new lip ring...Understandable, and she says it kinda puts us at bay hinting that it was a good thing that we don't move on any further..

So later on I tell her I have to go to work early so she asks if i want to stay for the night and take a nap in her bed..I take that option and sleep there and head to work super early 5 am.. She wanted me when I left kissed her and and the night went real well.






So I know that things went well and we make plans to hang a couple days later and she backs out last minute (tough week she says). I am like wtf so i talk to her with texts alil more and i was getting one word answers soo later on I end up getting no responses.






Question is: I have ignored calling or talking to her for atleast 5 days and then I texted one time.. I know where she works do I pursue at all beyond this text I thought about visiting her at work because she can't stop that hahah..

Anyway anything at all would be cool..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MisterMcGee

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did you fvck her that night she asked you to sleep over? if not, theres your prob
 

Lost1

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no i guess i should have you think thats the prob for real?

what should i do now just forget it?
 

Pimp-sicle

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MisterMcGee said:
did you fvck her that night she asked you to sleep over? if not, theres your prob

Not necessarily...... but he should have progessed more than making out. Bottom line you should have either fuvked this girl or at the very least....made her horny for you. You either were:

a) a bad kisser
b) didn't get her horny
c) both

No need to visit her, or wait 3 days to text or call again... that shipped has sailed. Move on and don't make that mistake again.




PIMP
 

DJDamage

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Lost1 said:
no i guess i should have you think thats the prob for real?
A woman does not usually invite a man to her bed so he can sleep!!

This is what happens when you let the chick do all the work and just stand there.

When you saw the chick eyeing you in the bar, you should have been the one that approached her, got her number and set the frame. She only did so because you didn't have the balls to do so but she let it slide because she was really attracted to you. She was hinting to you that she liked you but you didn't make a move.

Now she hinted to you that she wants you to go to bed with her, so it was up to you AGAIN to take things to the next level and escalate but once again you choose to do nothing and she probably said to herself "the hell with him, I ain't going to be doing all the work".

You will be lucky if you hear from her again.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hughman

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You slept her place, and didn't progress?

... Even as a chump I'm lost for words. I thought you were being coy about the matter...
 
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