Confused

[ConfusedERC]

so there is this girl, we are kinda friends. We've hung out, and had a few classes together. We aren't the best of friends but I would say we are decent friends. (She's a year older than me, I'm starting college next fall) Well she had a big party at her house. Everybody got drunk and eventually everybody left. I passed out on her couch. Later that night, I woke up and went up stairs to find her. We both ended up cuddling on her couch. One thing led to another and I put my hand up her shirt and also fingered her a little. I tried to kiss her but she didn't kiss back. We both fell asleep together a little after that, just cuddling on the couch. She got up sometime in the night and went to her bed b/c the couch was uncomfortable. (I chose not to follow her... Yeah I'm stupid.) The next morning she seemed real anxious to get me out of her house. However she called later that day and went to another party with me. That was about 2 days ago. Now everything is weird between us. I called her today but she was very short with me, acting uninterested.

When I first met this girl, I thought it was somebody I would like to get to know better, and now that this has happened, I can't get her out of my head.
This is also the first girl, I've done anything with (besides kiss) and I'm confused. Please help.

 

[ConfusedERC]

no advice?

 

[LikRetsam]

Party:

Definition in 2005 adolescent version: Free sex!

I'll tell you what happened. You were at a party, she wanted a screw. The mood is always the same. Step out of the mood and wam! All gone!

She doesn't care about you. And do expect this to happen alot. You don't often find much at such parties.

 

[ConfusedERC]

so I shouldn't go talk to her or anything? I mean, would it be bad to tell her how I feel about her? I thought she was a nice cute girl before we 'hooked up' -- if you can call it that.
Damn girls are so weird.