"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well Kcman, if the girl never asked for an explanation or if she didn't seem too interested in an explanation, you shouldn't go about letting her know all these things. It's kinda like someone just coming up to you talking about something which you have no interest in whatsoever and they expect you to get involved in the whole thing. Personal opinions, feelings and whatever are supposed to be kept to yourself unless you're involved in a discussion about it.

That's why it is extremely annoying when some girls just start blabbing about all their problems and shyt when I never even asked them about it. And when I try to get interested in it, they dislike my methods of approaching it. Better that way so they know not to come to me with all this shyt the next time.

Another thing. Doing things that were never asked of you will undoubtedly cause the other person to think that you're giving in too much or thinking about them too much. If this girl is totally in to you, then you don't really have a problem. But seeing how she's not so into you, letting your heart loose and stuff like that isn't a good idea. Also, not letting the girl know about something until she asks you about it is another good method of keeping mysterious.

I hope you understand where I'm coming from here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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