Confused...

[Kaliffoo]

Ok guys i need a little help...I've been checking out this site for a few days and have a question.

There's a girl in one of my classes that has been giving me vibes for the last week. She's a HB7.5 and so i was thinking of making a move on her. This past Monday she came and sat next to me and we started talking bout class and other small talk, at the end of class she asked me for my number saying in case she was ever absent she would ask me what we had covered in class.

So i gave her my # but didn't get hers thinking i was gonna see her the next day anyways. I was planning on asking her out for this weekend, but she didn't come to class for the rest of this week, and she didnt called me asking me what we did in class either.

My question is: 1) did she ask for my number to get me to ask for hers? Because she hasn't used my # for what she said she wanted it. 2) Do you guys think its too late for me to make a move on her? Has her IL gone down because i wasn't more forward?

Any help is appreciated.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Kaliffoo
Ok guys i need a little help...I've been checking out this site for a few days and have a question.

There's a girl in one of my classes that has been giving me vibes for the last week. She's a HB7.5 and so i was thinking of making a move on her. This past Monday she came and sat next to me and we started talking bout class and other small talk, at the end of class she asked me for my number saying in case she was ever absent she would ask me what we had covered in class.

So i gave her my # but didn't get hers thinking i was gonna see her the next day anyways. I was planning on asking her out for this weekend, but she didn't come to class for the rest of this week, and she didnt called me asking me what we did in class either.

My question is: 1) did she ask for my number to get me to ask for hers? Because she hasn't used my # for what she said she wanted it. 2) Do you guys think its too late for me to make a move on her? Has her IL gone down because i wasn't more forward?

Any help is appreciated.

Well it sounds like she gave you plenty of chances to get her number. How come you don't have call display?

Anyway, I would just tell her to give you her number.
Remember you don't ASK for the number you TELL her to give it to you. You must also expect her to reject you a few times.

Say something like. hey I wanted to call you the other day, but I forgot to copy your number down. Give me your number and I will call you. You don't tell her why you want to call her either. Just get her number and let her imagine why. Then wait a week and call her up and ask her out. Keep your conversation very short and make sure you know exactly what you want to do with her before you call her. Don't sit there on the phone trying to make up your mind.

It is never to late to hit on a woman and you can never hit on a woman too many times.

 

[00Kevin]

actually, here is a conversation I had that was very similar to what I described above.


I said, "hey I wanted to call you the other day, but I forgot to get your number. Give me your number and i'll call u".

She said, "why did you want to call me?"

using some C&F
I said, "I don't know... that is a good question. why would any one ever want to call you?" then I smiled.
She laughed and then I nudged closer to her ear and said, " ok girly girl what is your number?."

she gave it to me.


I never called her though too busy.

 

[Mojo604]

Originally posted by 00Kevin

I never called her though too busy. [/B]

 

[n00bPimp]

Next time any girl asks for your number just ask for hers instead, but dont give her yours. Use some C & F excuse like "You might be another stalker".

 

[Kaliffoo]

Thanks for the advice Kevin...im gonna use that line on her when i see her....

I know noob, i guess i had a brain lag...she even made a joke about how she wasnt gonna crank call me or stalk me