"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok, so on friday night, one of my female friends, who i have been friends with for a while and have had a relationship with before, invites me over to her friends house because she was having a few people over. This girl is seeing someone but im not sure how serious it is. Over the course of the night I definately noticed her giving extra attention to me (kino, flirting etc.). Nothing ended up happening that night, but she did ask me to do something within the next few days. Now i dont know if this is a sign of anything to come but i know i would really like to start something with this girl. If anyones been in this situation before or can help me out with this it would be appreciated. thanks in adv. cp.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have been in this situation before...we ended up having sex but after that nothin happened cause I didn't want to have anything with her again.
 
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Sounds like she wants to get back together with you.
If that's what you want then pursue it.

If you don't want that then don't get
together with her.
 
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Eject.

I've had the situation with ex's many times who've been seemed overly flirty and attentive, and 80% of the time it's because they want to reassure themselves that they're still attractive (maybe things aren't going right with new boy).

The other 20% has probably been times when I've misread the signs and really they've just been very comfortable with me because we used to be in a relationship.

Whatever you do, don't make any SOI (Statement Of Intent) and just act very chilled, carefree and generally DJ around the whole subject.

Mav
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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