"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kevin1198

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A girl i know recently broke up wither her boyfriend.
she said she wanted to date me, and the guy she goes out with isnt really her boyfriend. just someone to have around.

she jokes around alot so i cant tell if she's serious. she just said "we should date". i think shes doing it to maker her ex jealous seeing as hes in the same class.Usually im used to talking to them and trying to set up a date. but i dont know how to respond when someone says this.

what do you guys think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SharinganUser

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How do you respond when she says this?


I would say something like "Sorry, I only date good girls." Or some other qualifier. You have to be more challenging.
 

Amo

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NorwegianDJ said:
You like her? Go get her.
This is why NorwegianDJ is one of my favorite posters. Short, simple, and to the point.
 
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