confused

[danthemann]

ok so my girlfriend and I have been going out for a little over 5 months now id say... anyways weve been fighting a lot lately and all so last thursday she said she didnt want to have sex over the weekend cuz wed been fighting a lot and she wanted to know that we werent just about sex.. so friday night were at a party and i ended up getting what i wanted anyways... so i could tell she was upset about it afterwards but she didnt really show it...and we agreed we wouldnt have sex till this weekend coming up..(valentines day) but my parents are going out of town tuesday and now she wants to come over and have sex anyways..ive told her no which isnt really what i want but im confused as to her switching back and forth on the matter... like im not sure if its just a trap or not cuz i wanna have sex when she comes over tuesday but im not really sure. :crazy:

 

[jeffthechef]

use the head with the brain...

i would not do it tuesday...i think it's a test...

instead insist on doing some kind of board game or watch a movie...get sexual if you want...but dont let it reach the point where clothes are flying across the room...cause then you fail:nono:

 

[War Against Betaism]

Fvck her whenever you want, you're in control of the relationship. Is it a bullsh1t test or not? Who cares? You would have failed the test if you thought you would have failed, even if it is a test, do what you want to do. I've learned that having a strong will can manipulate so many things. So let's say she did say "I was testing you," be like "Cool, let's do it again."

This situation is kind of different. What you'll realize about women is that they never know what they want, they're the most bipolar people on this earth. I doubt that she is lying or giving you a test. Like I said before, do whatever the hell you want!