"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hi guys. what do you guys think of this.
this chick i work, we decided that we will go out one day in the week.
we will take half day off that day and have lunch and do stuff together.
this is her email i got today

We will have to make it some other time, I want to take the whole day off then. Cos i just confirmed a reservation I made for my parents and I want to be home early as they have to be there at 6 and no one will be there for my sisters.

But I still wanted to do that, so I'm gonna go to Claremont and go to the movies, and stuff like I said you're welcome to join me?

do you guys think this is genuine and she wants me to join her.

we havent really gone out together alone before and this is the 1st time
but im not sure if she interested or not
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stop with the emails.

Pick up the phone - call her and tell her your interested in a movie.
 
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I find it relatively amusing how everyone is so cynical on this site. Girls don't sit around and wait for you to call them so you can hang out. They have lives too, and if they don't, they're not worth dating. Sometimes stuff comes up. Honestly I'm starting to think a lot of the people on here have low self esteem or something.

Try to set up another date. Just make sure you're not just focusing all of you time and attention on her. That way, even if she flakes, you have nothing to lose.
 
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