"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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hi guys. what do you guys think of this.
this chick i work, we decided that we will go out one day in the week.
we will take half day off that day and have lunch and do stuff together.
this is her email i got today

We will have to make it some other time, I want to take the whole day off then. Cos i just confirmed a reservation I made for my parents and I want to be home early as they have to be there at 6 and no one will be there for my sisters.

But I still wanted to do that, so I'm gonna go to Claremont and go to the movies, and stuff like I said you're welcome to join me?

do you guys think this is genuine and she wants me to join her.

we havent really gone out together alone before and this is the 1st time
but im not sure if she interested or not
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stop with the emails.

Pick up the phone - call her and tell her your interested in a movie.
 
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I find it relatively amusing how everyone is so cynical on this site. Girls don't sit around and wait for you to call them so you can hang out. They have lives too, and if they don't, they're not worth dating. Sometimes stuff comes up. Honestly I'm starting to think a lot of the people on here have low self esteem or something.

Try to set up another date. Just make sure you're not just focusing all of you time and attention on her. That way, even if she flakes, you have nothing to lose.
 
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