Ok ive passed the point of being shy and going up and talking to girls and having game to start conversations with random girls.
Here's last 4 recent examples in 2 weeks that I am having trouble with. They never call back or ignore the day we are suppose to hang out.
Example 1:
We where suppose to do something I call her that day she don't pick up, the night before that she was txting me to come to the club where she was that night to come see her, ( i didn't go ). I call her a week later she picks up shes out of town for holidays she said her cell phone dropped in the sink when she got home that night and didn't have my number to call back. We talked on msn a few times all flirting and **** and she brings up us hanging out together when she comes back. Ok cool I call her when she gets back shes like I will have to see with my work schedule I said cool I will call you in a few days so I did she said we can do something the next day if she gets off work early and if she does she will give me a call. She never called me so I am guessing she didn't get off work early. I call her a week later she doesn't pick up doesn't call back.
Example 2:
Met this girl at the club got her number did some kino at the club ( she was sober all night ) awsome close got her number. Call her the next day she said she wants to do something after christmas. I call her after christmas arrange a date she agrees. The day comes shes late for the date and I decide to go home because its a minute away from where we where gonna meet up, She calls me shes like this place is closed I am like yah lets go watch a movie instead and then come back and play pool shes like ok that sounds great. She calls me a minute later shes like "Hey sorry I have to go I just gotten a family emergency call we can do something some other time I will call you tomorrow". I txt her back saying I hope everything is alright and that i am actually busy tomorrow and I will call her some other time. I call her she doesn't pick up and she txts me saying Hey happy new year to you too sorry but I have to call things off my situation has changed.
Example 3:
I run into my EX at the club. Blah blah she wants to hang out. We planned something on saturday. She txts me friday saying that she forgot shes going snowboarding and that she will have to bump when we meet an hour later. I said cool no problem let me know when u come back. She txts me on saturday saying that shes all beaten up from snowboarding and if she can have a rain check for our date. I said its all good because I wouldn't have made it as well that night I got caught up with some personal problems ( i lied to her about that ) and that I will call her soon. Shes like ok I will talk to u soon. I call her monday she doesn't pick up nor does she call back.
Example 4:
This girl older then me by 4 or 5 years. Known her for a quite some time. I am certain she like's me, but I didn't talk to her for a while. ran into her at the club shes like wheres my hug this and that she held my hand and stuff while we where talking blah blah, I txt her that night saying I hope she got home safe and that she looked really good. She also told me she was looking for a job at the club as a hostess.I told her that I could help her out get one at some restaurant that's pretty good on making money. So I went in talk to the managment because I know them they said get her to come in and we will go from there. I meet up with her that day we went for her interview she gets the job on the spot, we grab some food after the interview it went all well she was showing signs of interests, she kept staring at me the whole time and I tryed not looking at her and every time I did she was staring at me and she would look away if I catch her looking at me, she was flirting and telling me storys. She's like I will txt u tomorrow but doesn't txts me 2 days later after that ( its a saturday ) shes like hey what u doing, r u going out tonight? Instead of txting I call her asked her what her plan was that night. She said shes going out for sushi and then after that she doesn't know what shes going to do, I suggested maybe a lounge or something but she said she dazzed out and that she's feeling anti social. So I told her I will call her back in a fewminutes i will make a few phone calls to see what my friends are doing and I will call her back. I called her back told her we can do something some other night because I was kinda busy and that she cant make up her mind. So we arranged something on monday to go for dinner, I told her I will call her monday during the day. I called her twice and doesn't pick up.
so wtf... should I ignore these signs and call a week or two later and try again or what, i seriously dont know how to handle these situations. Do I just forget about them and move on to next girl or do I have to keep trying...
Here's last 4 recent examples in 2 weeks that I am having trouble with. They never call back or ignore the day we are suppose to hang out.
Example 1:
We where suppose to do something I call her that day she don't pick up, the night before that she was txting me to come to the club where she was that night to come see her, ( i didn't go ). I call her a week later she picks up shes out of town for holidays she said her cell phone dropped in the sink when she got home that night and didn't have my number to call back. We talked on msn a few times all flirting and **** and she brings up us hanging out together when she comes back. Ok cool I call her when she gets back shes like I will have to see with my work schedule I said cool I will call you in a few days so I did she said we can do something the next day if she gets off work early and if she does she will give me a call. She never called me so I am guessing she didn't get off work early. I call her a week later she doesn't pick up doesn't call back.
Example 2:
Met this girl at the club got her number did some kino at the club ( she was sober all night ) awsome close got her number. Call her the next day she said she wants to do something after christmas. I call her after christmas arrange a date she agrees. The day comes shes late for the date and I decide to go home because its a minute away from where we where gonna meet up, She calls me shes like this place is closed I am like yah lets go watch a movie instead and then come back and play pool shes like ok that sounds great. She calls me a minute later shes like "Hey sorry I have to go I just gotten a family emergency call we can do something some other time I will call you tomorrow". I txt her back saying I hope everything is alright and that i am actually busy tomorrow and I will call her some other time. I call her she doesn't pick up and she txts me saying Hey happy new year to you too sorry but I have to call things off my situation has changed.
Example 3:
I run into my EX at the club. Blah blah she wants to hang out. We planned something on saturday. She txts me friday saying that she forgot shes going snowboarding and that she will have to bump when we meet an hour later. I said cool no problem let me know when u come back. She txts me on saturday saying that shes all beaten up from snowboarding and if she can have a rain check for our date. I said its all good because I wouldn't have made it as well that night I got caught up with some personal problems ( i lied to her about that ) and that I will call her soon. Shes like ok I will talk to u soon. I call her monday she doesn't pick up nor does she call back.
Example 4:
This girl older then me by 4 or 5 years. Known her for a quite some time. I am certain she like's me, but I didn't talk to her for a while. ran into her at the club shes like wheres my hug this and that she held my hand and stuff while we where talking blah blah, I txt her that night saying I hope she got home safe and that she looked really good. She also told me she was looking for a job at the club as a hostess.I told her that I could help her out get one at some restaurant that's pretty good on making money. So I went in talk to the managment because I know them they said get her to come in and we will go from there. I meet up with her that day we went for her interview she gets the job on the spot, we grab some food after the interview it went all well she was showing signs of interests, she kept staring at me the whole time and I tryed not looking at her and every time I did she was staring at me and she would look away if I catch her looking at me, she was flirting and telling me storys. She's like I will txt u tomorrow but doesn't txts me 2 days later after that ( its a saturday ) shes like hey what u doing, r u going out tonight? Instead of txting I call her asked her what her plan was that night. She said shes going out for sushi and then after that she doesn't know what shes going to do, I suggested maybe a lounge or something but she said she dazzed out and that she's feeling anti social. So I told her I will call her back in a fewminutes i will make a few phone calls to see what my friends are doing and I will call her back. I called her back told her we can do something some other night because I was kinda busy and that she cant make up her mind. So we arranged something on monday to go for dinner, I told her I will call her monday during the day. I called her twice and doesn't pick up.
so wtf... should I ignore these signs and call a week or two later and try again or what, i seriously dont know how to handle these situations. Do I just forget about them and move on to next girl or do I have to keep trying...
