"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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alright. a friend of mine had this girlfriend for about 3 months, she's about an HB8 and does some modeling and ****. They broke up about 3 weeks ago but I still talk to her through myspace and she texts me about 5 times a day. She has a new boyfriend right now but she seems totally interested in me.

here is the message i received from her on myspace which made me ****ing confused.

" i was talking with **** tonight
about how chill you are
then i was like
****
i wish i had gone out with nick
instead of dumbass kyle
n **** was like
**** u shoulda gone out with nick
n we were both like **** yd i waste my time with a loser
wen ur like the chillest guy ever

lol just 2 let u kno"

my friend is kyle and i'm nick. i already talked with my friend and he said there would be no hard feelings if we hooked up. i'm just confused about this girl because she sent me that message last night and she still has a boyfriend.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What are you confused about? She seems to be interested in you, but she doesn't seem to be able to settle down. I have a feeling she's a tease, but I say you should go for it because you've really got nothing to loose. Tell her that if she was really interested, she should dump her boyfriend and go somewhere with you so she can have fun for a change.

Oh, next time try writing a bit neater, ok?
 
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Take some consumer advice from Nike on this chick: JUST DO IT!
 
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Sorry the ****ty grammar wasn't me. I just copy and pasted it from my myspace inbox haha.

thanks for all the advice though, I think i'm gonna go with "JUST DO IT"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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