Confused with the girl i like

[WnabGuitarist]

Hi Im in high school and also posted this in the High school forum but not many people go there so i wondering if you guys here could help me


can someone help me concerning this girl i like
Heres my Situation, im gonna try to go into a lot of detail since i really need help.

Theres this girl that i talked to in my lunch a lot and she is usually in my circle of friends. I got her phone number recently and asked her to hang out with me on saturday. Saturday came and she had to work. She called and said sunday or later on in the week. Sunday came and her mom wanted to spend time with her so she declined again. She did call me both those days and apologized. Monday came and my best friend and I went to pick her up(since he has his own car and i dont). We went to my other friends house whom she knows and likes and hung out for about 30 minutes before we went to my house. There we all just laid on a trampoline and talk and made eachother laugh. She wouldnt let me touch her much and if i did she would back off. She did invite me to go hiking with her and her mom the next day because her mom wanted to meet me which left me a little confused because thats a good sign right?

We decided we would all go bowling later and my best friend took her and I back to my house. We watched a chick flick the whole time but now she wouldnt back off when i sneakily used both of us petting my dog to touch her and when my dog left, we both just sat there with our arms touching. She did say that she liked my little sister more than me though . after that we ate what my mom cooked and then we headed off to bowling.

My best friend came to pick us up and i used all these tricks for putting my arm around her just to be funny. She didnt let my arm stay though. Since he has a truck that seats only 3 i was resting my arm on her leg but she took it off after a little bit. we got to the house we were previously at and his mom drove us there. She chose to sit in the front though while us 3 guys sat in the back.

We got there and just hung out till we got an open lane. She asked for gum saying something like i should have it which made me laugh, and she applied chap stick a lot of times. My best friend won the 1st game and midway through the second game while i was winning, She made a bet that she would kiss whoever won. Later i found out my friends stopped trying after that and i easily won lol. As we were leaving i said "you still owe me kiss" but i all i got was a kiss on the cheek. She said she had fun and we dropped her off.

The next day(tuesday) she canceled hiking saying her mom had to work. we hadnt talk till Saturday morning when i called her at 11 and woke her up. She acted really jerky and when i asked her to hang out with me the weekend, she just bluntly said "i dont want to hang out" not even really giving an excuse. She had to go get her permit that saturday but we could have hung out sunday. she also sighed ( when you let out a deep breath but not quite a yawn) a lot and said she does that when she wants people to shut up when they wont stop talking. I was pretty heartbroken that whole day and just called Sunday to get some guys number to chill with him.

Well its Monday and im confused as to what i should do. The guides here say to just lose the girl who shows second class behavior but im not so sure thats what im suppose( or want for that matter) to do. Can you guys give me advice.

Sorry for the long post but hopefully you found the story entertaining. I dont get much women despite my high popularity and sport playing life. which further kills my confidence.

What do you guys suggest? does she dislike me?

 

[Docs]

Talk to your bowling buddies. They seem like they know something is up with her, especially if they stopped trying!

It looks like you're getting strung along, she's not fully interested, but yet, not completely uninterested.

Talk to your bros!

 

[Obsidian]

Ok, first of all, the subject of your thread demonstrates a blaring problem: *The* girl you like should never be an issue. It should be *A* girl you like, or better yet, *A* girl you think is attractive and you asked out to see if you might click. If you're just chasing after this one stupid ***** then
1) you're missing out on all the other lovely ladies of the world
and
2) you're making her less and less attracted to you by the minute


Don't be a chump with this girl. What you need to do is virtually ignore this b|tch for AT LEAST one whole week. Make her wonder what about her has caused you not to be so attracted to her anymore. Make HER miss YOU. And spend most of the time that you're *not* chasing after her to look for other women you might want to hook up with. And then actually go after those other women if you get the chance.

and Read the damn Bible.

 

[WnabGuitarist]

Thx, ill listen to both of you and ill read the bible

 

[WnabGuitarist]

Can you link me to it because i cannot find it

 

[Docs]

Very bottom of any forum page.