Confused with the girl i like

[WnabGuitarist]

can someone help me concerning this girl i like
Heres my Situation, im gonna try to go into a lot of detail since i really need help.

Theres this girl that i talked to in my lunch a lot and she is usually in my circle of friends. I got her phone number recently and asked her to hang out with me on saturday. Saturday came and she had to work. She called and said sunday or later on in the week. Sunday came and her mom wanted to spend time with her so she declined again. She did call me both those days and apologized. Monday came and my best friend and I went to pick her up(since he has his own car and i dont). We went to my other friends house whom she knows and likes and hung out for about 30 minutes before we went to my house. There we all just laid on a trampoline and talk and made eachother laugh. She wouldnt let me touch her much and if i did she would back off. She did invite me to go hiking with her and her mom the next day because her mom wanted to meet me which left me a little confused because thats a good sign right?

We decided we would all go bowling later and my best friend took her and I back to my house. We watched a chick flick the whole time but now she wouldnt back off when i sneakily used both of us petting my dog to touch her and when my dog left, we both just sat there with our arms touching. She did say that she liked my little sister more than me though . after that we ate what my mom cooked and then we headed off to bowling.

My best friend came to pick us up and i used all these tricks for putting my arm around her just to be funny. She didnt let my arm stay though. Since he has a truck that seats only 3 i was resting my arm on her leg but she took it off after a little bit. we got to the house we were previously at and his mom drove us there. She chose to sit in the front though while us 3 guys sat in the back.

We got there and just hung out till we got an open lane. She asked for gum saying something like i should have it which made me laugh, and she applied chap stick a lot of times. My best friend won the 1st game and midway through the second game while i was winning, She made a bet that she would kiss whoever won. Later i found out my friends stopped trying after that and i easily won lol. As we were leaving i said "you still owe me kiss" but i all i got was a kiss on the cheek. She said she had fun and we dropped her off.

The next day(tuesday) she canceled hiking saying her mom had to work. we hadnt talk till Saturday morning when i called her at 11 and woke her up. She acted really jerky and when i asked her to hang out with me the weekend, she just bluntly said "i dont want to hang out" not even really giving an excuse. She had to go get her permit that saturday but we could have hung out sunday. she also sighed ( when you let out a deep breath but not quite a yawn) a lot and said she does that when she wants people to shut up when they wont stop talking. I was pretty heartbroken that whole day and just called Sunday to get some guys number to chill with him.

Well its Monday and im confused as to what i should do. The guides here say to just lose the girl who shows second class behavior but im not so sure thats what im suppose( or want for that matter) to do. Can you guys give me advice.

Sorry for the long post but hopefully you found the story entertaining. I dont get much women despite my high popularity and sport playing life. which further kills my confidence.

What do you guys suggest? does she dislike me?

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

She doesn't like you...I don't know how much more obvious it can get.

 

[Docs]

Try not to cross-post in the future.

 

[The Shocker]

too many IODs, you're screwed. Forget this broad.

 

[penkitten]

back off a little and see if she starts acting interested again by calling you. if she doesnt, then leave it alone.

 

[Plec07]

Yep, I'd next her and drop all contact. If your lucky she'll miss interactions with you and gain interest, if not then you should have already found another couple gals to game.

 

[shydude]

You guys seem to be "just friends". She doesnt seem to show any interest in you, i suggest you next her.

 

[limerick]

what you SHOULD DO:
stop talking to her for a while

what you HAVEN'T DONE but SHOULD BE DOING:
negs
innocent kino ex. thumb war "give me your hand" the grab her had "1,2,3,4 I declare a thumb war..."
fun attitude/vibe
confidence, body language, vocal tonality
AND hang out with other girls(groups if you can)

 

[LegendBoy]

If she does not come out with you I would reckon she doesn't like you. If i call a girl out once and she don't come out, Ill try one more time. Then if she flakes itoff without a good excuse. Then I forget bout it and pursue brighter options.

I know high school is harder to pick up in playground, but if you got a good circle of friends and are popular it should be VERY easy. Other then that meet some other girls. This girl ain't all that, you might think she is now. Three months later you will laugh at this post. Have some pride in yourself and hold yourself to a higher value and understand you do not need her.

You might feel like you do now but if she doesn't want you, why do you want her? Seems like yous have been to much time together as 'friends' so she didn't expect you too hit on her. So its really time you either went in for a kiss or you just backed the fvck off and let this situation rest in peace.