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I met a woman who is a co-worker. We hit it off and flirted and saw each other almost everyday. We IM each other at work all day too. One day we all went out for drink after work and the whole time she kept giving me a look. We ended up making out for awhile and I thought things where going great. The next day we went out for lunch and made out in the car like teenagers and I was leaving for the weekend and she was sad. I get a txt message on the weekend that says she has been seeing someone else for about 1 month, but she really likes me and is confused. She was off sick for 3 days and when she came back to work she said we had to talk. The whole day she was very rude to me and eventually told me she now has a BF.
It turns out she was pregnant from him and that is why she picked him over me. I was a bit hurt because I had STRONG feelings for her. Some time passed and we still talked and would hang out but not nearly as much. She would always complain to me about her BF and that he was being a dbag. She decided to get an abortion and the day she was going to go through with it she called me at 4:30am in the morning crying and upset. Her Ex told her to **** off and he wasn't going with her. She broke up with her BF a few days earlier and he was still supposed to go with her to get an abortion. I told her I would go with her and told her to tell me when she wanted me to pick her up. She agreed and seemed very thankful and very happy. I waited and waited for a few hours and she never called me back. It turns out her ex BF went with her, but she didn't tell me anything.
Few days pass and she sends me a txt thanking me for all my support and it means a lot to her. She takes a week off work and we don't really talk at all. When she returns she see's me at the coffee shop and sends me a txt saying it was sooo sooo good to see me. Then she says she really wants to see me and we go out for lunch together and she gives me several hugs and is smiling all the time. I then find out she is back with her BF, but she always wants to see me and talks to me all day. She always calls me sunshine and love. She gets upset if I don't meet her for a smoke or invite her for coffee. She is ALWAYS interested in my love life with other woman and gets upset if I don't tell her. FYI she knows how I feel about her.
I still have strong feelings for her, but I am soo confused. Does she actually like me or is playing me for a fool because I give her attention?
I met a woman who is a co-worker. We hit it off and flirted and saw each other almost everyday. We IM each other at work all day too. One day we all went out for drink after work and the whole time she kept giving me a look. We ended up making out for awhile and I thought things where going great. The next day we went out for lunch and made out in the car like teenagers and I was leaving for the weekend and she was sad. I get a txt message on the weekend that says she has been seeing someone else for about 1 month, but she really likes me and is confused. She was off sick for 3 days and when she came back to work she said we had to talk. The whole day she was very rude to me and eventually told me she now has a BF.
It turns out she was pregnant from him and that is why she picked him over me. I was a bit hurt because I had STRONG feelings for her. Some time passed and we still talked and would hang out but not nearly as much. She would always complain to me about her BF and that he was being a dbag. She decided to get an abortion and the day she was going to go through with it she called me at 4:30am in the morning crying and upset. Her Ex told her to **** off and he wasn't going with her. She broke up with her BF a few days earlier and he was still supposed to go with her to get an abortion. I told her I would go with her and told her to tell me when she wanted me to pick her up. She agreed and seemed very thankful and very happy. I waited and waited for a few hours and she never called me back. It turns out her ex BF went with her, but she didn't tell me anything.
Few days pass and she sends me a txt thanking me for all my support and it means a lot to her. She takes a week off work and we don't really talk at all. When she returns she see's me at the coffee shop and sends me a txt saying it was sooo sooo good to see me. Then she says she really wants to see me and we go out for lunch together and she gives me several hugs and is smiling all the time. I then find out she is back with her BF, but she always wants to see me and talks to me all day. She always calls me sunshine and love. She gets upset if I don't meet her for a smoke or invite her for coffee. She is ALWAYS interested in my love life with other woman and gets upset if I don't tell her. FYI she knows how I feel about her.
I still have strong feelings for her, but I am soo confused. Does she actually like me or is playing me for a fool because I give her attention?
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