Confused while messing around

[Sexual]

I went on a date with a girl to a movie and then went back to her place. This girl kept giggling while we were fooling around. She let me finger her for a second, asked me to close the door, then when I came back she asked me if I was just trying to get into her pants.

It's been a while since I've had a sober first date hook up, so I replied, "No... keep em on." I was thinking that I'd just keep turning her on and do a trial and error method to get her to come on to me.

Nu-uh. I couldn't figure out her kissing style either and she kept turning away, but when I would kiss her neck and get her warmed up she'd do like a washing machine swirl with her tongue and then back. WTF.

Anyone have an insight on this girl or is she just neurotic... or a dead fish.

 

[Sandow]

you need to build more comfort first. yea she's attracted to u, but that doesn't mean she's gonna sleep with u. you need to reveal and conceal

 

[traffic]

I went on a date with a girl to a movie and then went back to her place. This girl kept giggling while we were fooling around. She let me finger her for a second, asked me to close the door, then when I came back she asked me if I was just trying to get into her pants.

This is a great place to get to.

I replied, "No... keep em on."

Oooohh, bad move. First, that's obvious bs and any girl knows that. Of course you want to get in her pants. Second, you're missing a shot to elevate her feelings and you're kind of being lame. What kind of girl wants to hook up with a guy who doesnt want to get her pants off?

I would have said emphatically "Hell yeah," or "I'm absolutely trying to get in your pants, you look so damn hot in them." or "NO! I'm trying to get you out your pants. ."

Nu-uh. I couldn't figure out her kissing style either and she kept turning away, but when I would kiss her neck and get her warmed up she'd do like a washing machine swirl with her tongue and then back. WTF.

Keep practicing with her. That's the best part. Remember it's the journey not the destination.

 

[DJDamage]

She let me finger her for a second, asked me to close the door, then when I came back she asked me if I was just trying to get into her pants.

It's been a while since I've had a sober first date hook up, so I replied, "No... keep em on.

So you were fingering her and she asked you to close the door..... that was your first mistake. Once the finger is inside you better keep it inside or you should have shut the door earlier. I would have warmed her up a little more before I would shut the door.

The second part, you blow her sh1t test. She asked you a question in which she already knew the answer. You had a chance of some great C&F material but instead your answer was lame and you lied.

If things were working for you prior with the drinking, why go sober for this one? I am sure if you added a bottle or two she wouldn't have made any fuss and would have gone with the flow.

 

[Sexual]

Lol awesome advice.

I would have said emphatically "Hell yeah," or "I'm absolutely trying to get in your pants, you look so damn hot in them." or "NO! I'm trying to get you out your pants. ."

second part, you blow her sh1t test

I really shouldn't have gotten up. I don't think her roommates were even home. I'll go reread up on that. I haven't heard the term shyt test in a while, and probably usually just slid right through it because of the drinking factor. Nice extra comment, but there wasn't time for the booze. I think I had to be somewhere in a couple hours.

Thanks for good advice.

I like that I just looked this post up, cause funny enough I had a second party this weekend on Sunday night and banged her senseless. My first girl 6 feet tall.