"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Confused what would YOU do?

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Hello,

- Girlfriend of 4 months
- Was speaking to someone she used to like but after a few weeks realised she didnt like him in January.
- She was still speaking now and again as friends and I said I was uncomfortable with it and she stopped talking, hes not on facebook any phone etc.
- My friend posted a status on facebook, he commented on it.
- She liked the comment.

Should this annoy me? What would you do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MidnightCity said:
if this is any indication

prepare yourself. youre gonna get ripped for this one once the members log in
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I know :/ just its bugging me
 
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Was the guy's comment worth liking? If he didn't have some sort of history with your gf, would you have liked it?

Don't worry about it, a lot of people (maybe your gf included) are compulsive 'likers' on facebook.

Don't let it annoy you, but just be that little bit more alert to what your gf is doing and trust your gut.
 
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